BRIDGES: From The First Meeting to The Bedroom

“Bridges”

How to Go From One Step

To The Next…

From The First Meeting

To The Bedroom

Critical Moments And Bridges

How to Go From One Step To The Next With Women -

The First Meeting to the Bedroom

I spent some time with my family this yuletide and decided not to post any updates but I feel disconnected from my pride and cubs. So now am back with a couple of notes I gathered and would love to share with you.

When I first started learning about how to meet women, I realized that

there were some major 'problem areas' that I had to deal with.

After learning how to handle them myself, I realized that almost ALL

men have these same stumbling blocks. Here I hope to help you see these

areas and improve the ones that you need help with.

To begin with, let me explain what I mean by a 'Critical Moment.'

These are the moments in time where you have to do something to

advance to the next level.

For instance: If you're with a woman and you're having a great

conversation, you might want to take the relationship to a physical level.

Most men I know are not sure how to 'transition' into this next phase.

Or let's say you see a woman that you'd like to meet, and you have to

decided whether or not you're going to walk over and say hello. This is a

critical moment. If you don't do it, you probably won't get another chance.

I know one guy who meets a lot of women. Women really seem to like

him when they first meet him. He can get dates, and get them to come

home with him. But every time he tries to get physical with a woman, she

decides that it's time to leave.

I know another guy who meets women everywhere we go. Women just

love him. They laugh and joke with him. But he never asks any of them for

their phone number, so he doesn't date any of them.

The problem with Critical Moments is that they almost ALWAYS require

the man to take initiative and do something that can be REJECTED by the

woman. For instance, walking up and saying hello, asking for a date, kissing

her, etc.

In all of these situations, a man has to go through the possibility of

rejection. This keeps most men from even trying. And most guys have at

least one or two areas that they're not confident about.

If you're not confident and know exactly where you're going and what

you're doing, you're going to be likely to make a mistake, say something

wrong, and cause the woman to reject you at one of these important turning

points.

The danger, of course, is that if a man makes a mistake at one of these

key times that offends the woman, she may decide to leave.

Every new relationship is like a complex puzzle. You can make it

through many steps, then make a mistake and have it all fall apart. Are you

with me?

Here's my list of the Critical Moments:

1. Approach (Walking over and saying hello)

2. Digits (Getting a phone number, email address, etc.)

3. Date request (This can actually be done when you first meet)

4. Date (The actual time with her)

5. Hold hands (The first sustained physical contact)

6. Kiss (The first 'intimate' contact)

7. Alone in private (Trust)

8. Make out (Sexually aroused)

9. Clothes off (Very sexually aroused)

10. Sex (Very very very sexually aroused!)

As far as I'm concerned, if a person needs improvement in an area of

life, they usually need to learn a new SKILL. Too many people make the

mistake of thinking that something's wrong with them, and that they'll never

be able to overcome their obstacle. Just remember, it's all about learning a

new skill to overcome each obstacle.

So I've taken each of these different Critical Moments and created what

I call a 'Bridge' for each.

Let me explain what a Bridge is.

Before each Critical moment, there are certain things that happen.

These often set up the Critical Moment that is about to follow.

For instance, if you're talking to a woman on the telephone, and you

want to ask her for a coffee date, what happens on that phone call will

largely determine whether or not she meets you.

Or if you are on a date, and you'd like to kiss her, her mood and level of

enjoyment is going to determine whether or not she's going to be receptive

to a kiss.

The times 'between' Critical Moments are Bridges. If you set up the

critical moment correctly, you will be much more likely to be successful than

if you don't. If you learn all of my 'Bridge Strategies' this will help you move

smoothly from one Critical Moment to the next.

And the best part about some of my Bridge techniques is that they

CAUSE HER to take the initiative and go to the next level. For instance, if

you're alone with a woman who you've already kissed, and you'd like to

make out with her, you can use my 'smelling her' technique.

By taking a few minutes and smelling her neck and shoulders, she'll

usually get so turned on that she grabs you and makes out with you right

there! (Of course, you'll want to push her away and tease her a bit, because

this will amplify her desire even more - and it will be fun for both of you!)

Probably the most important Bridge is between talking and getting

physical. Most men just don't know how to advance to a physical level. But

I'm getting ahead of myself here. More later.

Bridge To #1, The Approach

Probably the most important concept that I should emphasize on because here in Africa it’s a big problem and guys have a lot of faulty starts.

The fact is that nowadays women are very sensitive to any 'lines' that

sound canned or corny. The way to meet women is to walk over and start a

normal conversation (not to hiss or whistle to them like they are ho’s or whores or even some animal you control at your own whim). If you've learnt from the best, you know it's not a good idea to give too many compliments early on. But it's fine to say "Hi, I

just wanted to tell you... you have great shoes" etc. and then start talking.

The key is, do something NORMAL.

Women have an instant resistance to men who

try to be 'slick.' So don't do it.

Now, what's the key to being calm and normal?

The key is confidence and poise. You have to learn how to be confident

in these situations.

I was surprised to find out that most women are actually pretty nice

when you approach them. Especially if you're not acting like a stalker or a

guy who hasn't been with a woman in 10 years.

But for now, just realize that this is a

Critical Moment, and you need to learn how to handle it. If you don't get this

one handled, all the rest are irrelevant.

Bridge To #2, Getting Digits

The key to this Bridge is to learn how to be interesting and funny. In due time you'll read about the 'Cocky and Funny' concept that I

learned from a good friend.

This makes conversations interesting to women.

The next part is to know EXACTLY what you're going to say and

EXACTLY how you're going to say it. I say "Do you have email?" If they say

'Yes' then I treat that like a yes that they'll give it to me, and give them a

pen. Then, WHILE THEY'RE IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING I say "And go

ahead and write down your number there too." It comes across natural and

smooth. But you have to learn the words and mentally rehearse to get it

perfect. So do that.

Bridge To #3, The Date Request

The idea here is to keep up the Cocky and Funny personality that you

Will learn soon enough in my next post, and add the other magic ingredient: The

Friendship Frame.

When you talk to a woman about meeting for coffee or lunch etc. it's

important to say "Well, let's get together and make FRIENDS. If nothing

else, you sound like you might make a nice FRIEND." The psychology behind

this is “Most women can't believe that a man could actually be interested in getting to know them as a friend. And it also causes them to say "Hmmm... I wonder if he's attracted to me?" This works in your favor. You have to learn the words and practice, but this will really pay off for you. Learn the Friendship Frame.

Bridge To #4, The Date

When you're preparing to meet a woman for the first 'Date' (and this

can be just for tea (coffee for me), to go for a walk, watch a movie... whatever) you need to do a few key things. You MUST be as clean as possible.

I recommend washing 3 times in the shower (lol), and using a

nice light cologne. Wear clean, comfortable clothes, etc. Brush the teeth, use

floss and mouthwash. You have to make a good impression. Most guys that

have problems at this stage are trying too hard. It's a paradox, but you have

to stay very cool and calm when you first meet a woman - and act almost

indifferent. This quality is attractive to women.

Bridge To #5: Holding Hands

I personally think that it's a good idea to hold a woman's hand for

awhile before kissing, etc. This conveys to the woman that you are a warm,

friendly person, and someone she can trust.

The interesting thing about hand holding is that men think that hand

holding means "She wants to have sex" and women think that it means "Oh,

he's a nice guy."

Once you're holding hands, it's very easy to move to kissing, etc.

Here's how:

I recommend learning a few good 'cold reading' methods. These can be anything from palmistry to handwriting analysis to astrology. Women LOVE this stuff.

An important one to learn is Palmistry, as it leads to you touching her hands! If you then learn a bit about hand massage and reflexology, you can naturally lead into a discussion about hands and pressure points, and start to give her a hand massage right there. When you're finished, you just keep holding her hand. It works so perfectly.

I've shown this to several of my buddies - and they LOVE IT. It is so smooth and nice for a woman.

Bridge To #6: Kissing

I don’t know a lot about this one (my girlfriend can confirm) but I'm quite good in the theoretical.

If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to be kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of

It .If she smiles and appears to like what she's hearing, I then reach back over and start stroking it again while talking to her. If she likes this, I know that she would be receptive to a kiss.

Now, this may sound simple, but I've done something very sophisticated from the WOMAN'S perspective. After years of research and experience, I've learned that women like to have the idea that they are IN

CONTROL of the situation.

By using The Kiss Test (tell you about it later) I've been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven't given her anything she can object to.

You can imagine that if you've just finished holding her hand for a while, this is almost natural!

I think that the car is a great place for a first kiss...

Bridge To #7: Being Alone With Her

This Bridge is all about trust.

If she trusts you, and feels safe, she'll be OK with the idea of being

alone with you. Do you see how everything fits together? Each step flows

smoothly into the next.

Here's what I do:

it's important to not seem too eager for anything. I like to have a woman meet me at my place, then leave from there to go out for drinks. Then, when we come back, I look at my watch

and say "Well... OK, you can come in for a minute."

This is great, because it kind of makes it seem like she was trying to

talk me into it! Because I don't seem too anxious, she'll usually say "OK."

Other ways you can do this are by telling her that you want her to meet

Your dog (no… not that one) or telling her about something you want to show her (again, not that - save that for later). If you talked about your art

collection at the bar, then it's natural for her to come see it. Remember, the

key here is TRUST. So be trustworthy.

Bridge To #8: Making Out

Once you're inside (your place or hers) you need to Bridge into making

out. Just because a woman kisses you, it doesn't mean that she's hot for

your body right then and there. You have to help her work up to that.

Men are on/off switches, and women are volume knobs (remember?). So work on this one slowly and with patience.

Here's how:

The first thing to do is NOTHING. You need to take 10 or 15 minutes

and sit back and be only interested in talking (or listening better still, if she’s the talking type). As a matter of fact, sit far away from her, or lean back if you're next to her. This sends the message that you're not just horning in for the kill. (Hey, you can actually have an interesting conversation if you want, it's OK).

Next, when you've both shared a nice laugh together, and the energy is good, reach back over and give her another kiss.

This time, whisper in her ear that she smells really good. Then start to smell her neck and shoulders. This one is a time bomb!

If you can learn to just smell a woman's neck and shoulders for about

10 minutes WITHOUT KISSING HER you will blow her mind. Women LOVE to be smelled (when they know they ARE clean oh! Don’t go smelling a street girl or AN OTIGBA JUNCTION 8 HOURS GIRL!!! After she’s had different men mount and suck her before you that day….it will disgust them cause they know they’re unclean), and it instantly turns them on.

I'm about to teach you a couple of killer moves, so get ready.

In the animal kingdom, different animals have different signals that tell the other that they're interested. When some of these signals are sent by the male, the females actually BECOME PARALYSED and freeze in a sexually

aroused position.

Women have this same mechanism... shhhhhhh!

Here are the things that trigger it:

1. Pulling her hair gently (run your hand up the back of her neck into

her hair, then make a fist and pull lightly).

2. Biting her neck gently (no Dracula here, just lightly).

3. Breathing in her ear and whispering.

4. Kissing her neck.

If you take some time smelling her, she will start to get turned on. Then it's time to try one of the above to take her to the next level! This is when you can start gently rubbing her breasts, etc. and go with some heavy petting.

Bridge To #9: Clothes Off

I have found that many women are shy, self-conscious, and nervous about taking their clothes off. If you know how to overcome this, it will obviously help you have more sex.

I just mentioned a few techniques for making a woman literally paralyzed with stimulation. Here's where you want to really turn up the volume. It's time to use these one after another.

Compliments also work well at this point. Since most women are self-conscious about their bodies, a simple "I think you have such a sexy body" will work wonders. Women often need to know that you find them attractive.

Now you can start taking off the clothes... first shirt, then bra, then pants... etc. Go slowly, and if she stops you, just take that as a signal that you need to keep up the smelling, neck kissing, ear breathing, etc.

NEVER keep going if a woman says "Stop." But stop doesn't usually mean "Stop and go away," it usually means "Stop, I need you to turn me on some more."

(I hate to have to do this, but there are some men who don't get it, so... don't force yourself on women! If she's not into you, leave. Don't be a dumb-ass, and don't date rape women!)

So just keep talking sexy to her, kissing, etc. Then try again. The more turned on she gets, the more the clothes come off. But if she’s on she’s on her period….sorry oh.

  

Bridge To #10: Sex

The most important part of the Bridge to sex is being prepared!

Sometimes a guy will ask me "What do I do once I get her back to my place?"

I ask them "Do you keep your bed made?" and "Do you have condoms in the house?"

Usually, I can find at least one thing that would make it almost impossible for them to succeed with a woman!

So be ready! Buy condoms, make sure your house is neat, bed is made and your house is empty…privacy counts... be prepared! Think through what is going to have to happen in order for you to follow through once a woman is there and the situation is right.

Ok... on to the specifics:

I've personally found that if you get a woman turned on enough, she'll take the initiative and signal that she's ready.

This signal can be anything from rubbing her hips against you to grabbing your crotch, etc. I don't like to push women... I like them to get so turned on that they say "Please." And I'm not kidding!

I learned from a friend that if you start, then stop, then start, then stop... she'll get REALLY turned on. So do that! Women love a challenge, and if you can be a challenge in this area, then you're the man!

So kiss her body for a while, then stop. Then kiss her neck. Then stop.

Then breathe in her ear... then stop. You get it. If you're patient, she'll eventually do something blatant that says "OK, enough! I'm ready!"

So now you understand the concept of Critical Moments and Bridges.

I encourage you to take a few minutes right now and write down where you need improvement. Then take the time to learn the SKILLS you need to do better in those areas. I know it can be done. You just have to do it!

I hope you've enjoyed this and learned from it.

I’ll talk to you again soon…

Your Friend,

Leonhart

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ADAM BUYING EVE + THE SONG OF PASSION

     Another piece from our favorite psalmist, Emeka the flaming mind (follow him @FlameEmeka). THE SONG OF PASSION.

      Well well well.... Flame, i don't know how you feel women came about but before i drop your piece lemme tell you a little story.

 i was having this chat with God this morning....and this is more like
a summary of what happened in the garden of Eden...HOW ADAM BOUGHT EVE

Noticing that Adam appeared somewhat sullen, God asked, "What is wrong
with you, Adam?"

Adam said, "I don't have anyone to talk to... to play with... to eat
with... except the animals."

God said that he was going to make Adam a companion and that it would
be a Woman.

God said, "This person will gather food for you, and when you discover
clothing, she'll wash it for you. She will always agree with every
decision you make. She will bear your children and never ask you to
get up in the middle of the night to take care of them. She will not
nag you and will always be the first to admit she was wrong when
you've had a disagreement. She will never have a headache and will
freely give you love and passion when ever you need it."

Adam asked God, "What will a woman like this cost?"

God replied, "An arm and a leg."

Then Adam asked, "What can I get for a rib?" .............And the rest is history.

Now, to the main event...(Emeka's Song) Dedicated to ''Stylish Thelma'' who requested this....

    '' What can man want in a woman, that I've not come to find in thee? A gift to me as given by the Lord.

 I've come to believe and thou art loyal to me as man. Thou cometh with Love and trueness, and the Lord's command regarding thine reputation shalt I protect. 

Thou art full of beauty and aura, thou art mine. So bring it; bring it to me, thy body. Let me keep thee warm, let me feel thine breasts against mine chest; press them hard upon me until nipples almost pierce my chest.

 I shall curl my great arms around thee and stroke thine spine from neck and down to the low. Let me kiss thine forehead, o love of my choices; kissing thy lip as well and resting tongue on thine nips. 

Thy hip is hot and thine butt is firm above thine shanks. I will lay on thee and spark thine warmth, from head to toe; touching thine active spots. I'll take the line from between thine cleavages and rule it down to the end beneath; o setting thee on fire! The feel is warm; almost hot, o woman of goodwill; o woman of my flaming heart,  thine feel in my heart is a burning flame. 

In The sharing of this passion, have I brought smile to thine face and most of thine days with me shalt be full of the joys that I can give.

I'll talk to you again soon,
Your Friend,
Leonhart

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ANSWERS FOR MEN (add yours)

            Once again i've been away..... a little bit of humour to lighten the mood eh!
Sometimes Women Ask Stupid Questions which in my Opinion should be rhetorical
But HEY! why spoil the fun when we can be as annoying in our answers as they are in their questions 
or even more. 
comment and add yours!
 

The Man Answer List


WHY ARE MEN SUCH JERKS?
 It's a testosterone thing. Much similar to your PMS thing,
we men suffer from testosterone poisoning. Why do you think
the average life span of a male is typically 10 years shorter
(and it's not just from all the bitching and nagging we have
to endure)? Hormones modifies behavior. We're just misunderstood.

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS HAVE TO OGLE AT OTHER WOMEN?
 Again, this is a testosterone thing. Do you honestly think
that all the testosterone just fell out of our bodies the moment
we met you? Besides, women do it as well. Women are just much
better at not getting caught. I'm fairly certain it's some sort
of photographic memory deal. Women take one quick look and memorize
it for later reference. Since men lack this ability, we try to
burn it into our memory by staring as much as we can.

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS TOUCH THEMSELVES, ESPECIALLY IN PUBLIC?
 We occasionally need to adjust our little friend and make him
happy. It's much like adjusting your bra. Being in public is
just an added bonus. No offence to you Nedu danzprinz.

 WHY DO MEN ALWAYS SAY SUCH STUPID THINGS?
 We like to. It's actually a whole lot of fun to see our partner
frustrated by a few simple (and well chosen) words.

WHY ARE MEN SO UNCOMMUNICATIVE?
 You'd learn to keep your big mouth shut too if every time you
open it you get into trouble with your partner.
                                             
WHY DO MEN HAVE TO ACT LIKE SUCH RETARDS?
 Well, we don't actually have to; we do it because we enjoy it.
It's the old fashioned pride in a job well done that's missing
in so much of the world nowadays. Farting is another fun thing
for men!!

WHY CAN'T MEN JUST SHARE THEIR FEELINGS?
 Do we look like women to you? Why is it so hard to understand
that men and women are different? How are we supposed to share
how we feel when we have no idea how we feel? Unless we're
experiencing some extreme emotion like rage, hatred, disgust,
or a brick on our foot, we have no idea how we feel. Personally,
I get a headache whenever I try to figure out how I feel.
                                                  
WHY CAN'T MEN CUDDLE MORE (I.E., LIE DOWN AND HUG)?
 Please ... How many hours do you think there is in a day? We
oblige you as much as we can, but who the hell (besides women)
can stand lying around for hours on end? (hmmm...Amara)

We men ... Men hunters... Need go roam ... Starve in cave ... Must go find wildebeest
... Now sitting on our asses for hours on end (pressing my lappy) on the other hand
is a whole other story.

HOW CAN MEN SIT ON THEIR ASSES ALL DAY WITHOUT MOVING?
 Men have very powerful sets of sitting muscles developed by
evolution that enable us to sit for extended periods of time
without getting tired. In prehistoric times, it was often
necessary to sit in one spot for extended periods of time while
hunting for prey. The more successful hunters were able to sit
very still for very extended periods of time thereby passing
on this ability to their progeny. The fidgety types were all
gobbled up by saber toothed tigers etc. The end result is that
almost all modern men are born with this innate ability.

WHY CAN'T MEN JUST SAY "I LOVE YOU?"
 Men are taught from a tender young age to be self-sufficient.
To say that we love you is equivalent to saying that we need you.
Most men consider that a character fault. It's not easy to admit
to one's own character faults.

WHY DO MEN SAY "I LOVE YOU" WHEN THEY HARDLY KNOW ME?
 Ho, Ho, Ho ... Aren't you special? Well, some men think it's
a sure fire way to get into your pants. Surprisingly, it actually
still works quite well.

WHY DOESN'T MY PARTNER EVER ANSWER ME?
 We just simply don't have the energy to answer every single
one of your questions. If we think we do not have the answer,
or that you will not like the answer, we simply remain quiet
and save the energy for other things.

WHY WON'T MEN EVER PICK UP AFTER THEMSELVES?
 Why should we? It doesn't really bother us that much. Besides,
we know darn well you'll pick it up.


WHAT'S WITH ALL THE BELCHING AND FARTING?
 This usually only occurs after months of courting. It's our way
to let you know that we're comfortable with you. Believe it or
not, it's actually a sign of affection. Besides, holding it for
extended periods of time gives us stomach cramps.


WHY DO MEN HATE SHOPPING?
 It's an evolutionary thing. Men hunt. Women gather. We just want
to go out, kill it, and bring it back. Who wants to spend hours
and hours to look at things we have no intention of killing?
Err ... buying?
We just go to Nza Bush House or Brifina and POINT AND KILL!!!! for fun.

Hahahahah!!!! I had madt fun! did you? Then Add yours via comment and i'll 
update it.

Your Friend 
     Leonhart

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SECRET OF SEXUAL BODY LANGUAGE

 “How To Use ‘Sexual’ Body Language

To Make Women Notice And Feel

ATTRACTION For You…”

        Have you ever thought that if you just knew the right “words” to say to a woman, that

you would have no problem “picking her up”?

If so, you’re not alone. In fact, this is exactly what I used to think.

I used to think that if I could just learn the right “lines” and “techniques”, everything

else would just fall into place.

I have another question for you…

Have you ever approached a woman with what you thought was a good “line”… or with

something “polite”… and had her totally blow you off?

Well, this may come as a surprise, but there’s a very good chance that she made the

decision to reject you BEFORE YOU EVEN OPENED YOUR MOUTH.

Huh?

Think about it…

Attractive women get hit on by men day in and day out. It NEVER stops.

They are practically forced to develop ways to size men up FAST.

And body language just happens to be the easiest and the MOST ACCURATE way for

them to disqualify guys who don’t “get it” without ever even having to talk to them.

That said... developing powerful, masculine body language is one of the most important

things you’ll ever do to improve your game.

If you want to make a woman feel comfortable and open to talking to you, you must

learn to physically communicate to her that you are the type of man she is looking for

BEFORE you meet her.

And if you want to make a woman feel powerful sexual attraction for you, you must

learn to project the physical signals that women can’t help but respond to you.

Because this information is so important, I wanted to create a special report for you to

go along with this issue of my monthly interview series, just to be absolutely sure that you

get every ounce of information out of it.

So here’s exactly what you need to do to transform your communication and start

speaking to women in a way that most men will NEVER figure out…

1. “Un-Train” Yourself And Eliminate All Of The Things That You’re Doing

Wrong…

If you really want to become a master of sexual body language, it’s not enough to

simply learn the “right moves”. You also need to eliminate what you’re doing wrong.

Remember, women are at least TEN TIMES better at reading and interpreting subtle

communication than men.

Even if you’re doing a lot of things right, one small “tick” will give her that feeling that

“something isn’t right”. You need to be absolutely sure that everything you do “fits”.

So how do you do that?

2. Become Constantly Aware Of What Your Body Is Doing

Good body language isn’t something you just “turn on” when you are talking to a

woman.

It’s important that you internalize it and make it a part of you.

When you’re first learning this stuff, you need to be paying attention to your body

language ALL THE TIME.

Start paying attention to EVERYTHING… where you place your hands when you are

sitting, the way your feet are facing when you’re standing, the speed and precision of your

movements, the way you walk, the way you blink, and even the way you breathe.

Simply opening your eyes to what your body is doing will give you some great insights

on improving it.

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3. Align Yourself For Success

The most important thing that great non-verbal communicators do to project

masculine confidence and power is something most do unconsciously.

The good news is that you can easily learn it and duplicate their success.

The key is to ALIGN YOURSELF so that every part of your body is completely

congruent with one another.

When standing, keep your feet a little bit more than shoulder-width apart. Make sure

to balance your weight firmly across the entire length of your feet.

Now, put your shoulders back and lift your chest up towards the sky.

Put your chin up, and with each hand, touch your thumb to your forefinger to align the

muscles in your arms.

Doing this forces you into “centered” position, and causes positive sexual energy to

flow throughout your body.

And believe me… women will take notice.

You can use this same technique of aligning yourself when you are sitting down,

leaning up against a wall, or walking down the street.

Ok, homework time…

Go out and grab the movie “Swingers”, and pay close attention to the character played

by Vince Vaughan.

Watch how he stands, how he sits, and how he moves.

Notice how every detail of his body language is completely congruent.

Now, as you walk around town today, PRETEND YOU ARE HIM. (I know this sounds

silly… but trust me).

Also try studying the character of JAMES BOND, especially pierce BROSNAN and the

 way he moves (body language) and sounds ....very masculine (My name is Bond,...James Bond)

 Focus on keeping yourself centered and aligned.

Watch the reactions you get from women and everyone else. I think you’ll be surprised

at just how much of a difference this stuff makes.

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4. Lead From Your Hips

a simple secret that was a HUGE “ah ha” for me

This secret is something that will instantly improve your body language, and cause

women to notice you wherever you go.

The best part about it is that it’s incredibly easy to learn and use.

The secret is to “lead from your hips” when you are walking.

Most men move forward with their chest or their head leading the way. When you lead

from your hips, it subtly communicates a sexual awareness that women are BIOLOGICALLY

PROGRAMMED to notice.

Simply put, doing just this one thing will have a massive effect on the way women look

at you… even if you change nothing else in your game.

Just pretend as if there is a giant string tied to your belt that is gently pulling you along

as you are walking.

It really is that easy. The tricky part is simply REMEMBERING to do it until you

internalize it and it becomes second nature.

So you can tie a string around your finger, or write a note to yourself backwards on your

forehead so you can read it when you look in the mirror.....lol

It’s THAT important.

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5. Lift Your Chest

I also talked about ANOTHER “goldmine” move that is easy to learn

and will improve your body language INSTANTLY.

A while ago I was fortunate to have a gentleman write in to me that happened to coach

professional musicians and singers.

He shared with me a secret used by professional singers to powerfully amplify their

voices to completely fill up a room.

As it turns out, you can use this secret to massively and INSTANTLY improve your

body language.

I really wish I would have thought of this one…

That secret is to “lift” your chest.

When you lift your chest towards the sky, it practically forces you to align your body

into a powerfully masculine position.

You can do this whether you’re sitting, standing, or walking.

In fact, this really is an instant cure that you can use anytime you aren’t sure of how to

position yourself.

Since this gentleman first shared this technique with me, I’ve personally incorporated

it into everything I do, and it’s a proven winner.

I can tell you from experience that when you are learning how to be successful with

women, there are very few “quick fixes”. In 99% of cases, simply learning a great “pick up

line” or technique will get you nowhere.

Well, this is one of those VERY RARE exceptions. Use it!

6. Make Her Earn It

When most guys are around women, they make the big mistake of physically “leaning

in”. This subtly communicates to a woman that you want her… and that SHE---not YOU---is

in charge.

Not good.

It’s FAR more effective to lean back a bit and make her come to you. This accomplishes

three VERY important things:

1. It makes her feel comfortable with talking to you because you are not crowding

into her personal space.

2. It completely separates you from every other guy she’s met, and let’s her know

RIGHT AWAY that there is something different about you.

3. It creates a HUGE challenge by subtly forcing HER to come to YOU… and sets

up the frame that YOU are the selector and SHE is the pursuer right from the start.

The same holds true in how you orient the way you are facing when talking to a woman.

If you immediately turn to face her while she is facing even slightly away, then YOU are

framed as the pursuer.

On the other hand, if you approach her WITHOUT facing her directly, and let her be

the one to position her body towards you, it says all the right things, and starts the

interaction off right.

These two things are the secrets every “natural” uses to have woman chasing him from

the start. Start paying very close attention to this stuff when you’re interacting with women.

It will be second nature for you before you know it.

7. Show Her That You Are Sexually Aware

If you can master the subtle ways to show a woman that you are sexually aware and

experienced WITHOUT saying anything, women will become turned on simply by being

around you.

One of the biggest indicators women use to size up a man’s sexual experience is the

way he touches HIMSELF.

Here are a few things you can do to let a woman know that you know exactly what

you’re doing:

1. Every once in awhile, briefly caress your own chest or neck as you are talking to

her

2. If you find yourself talking to a woman and you are both sitting down, rest one

hand on your inner thigh near (but not touching) your crotch

3. Look intensely in her eyes, and then look away

4. Eliminate all “fidgety” movements and nervous “ticks”

Learning sexual body language might be the simplest thing you can do to improve your

ability to make women feel attraction for you.

It’s also one of the most important.

This is one of few “easy fixes” that will get you huge results.

Like I mentioned before, the only hard part here is REMEMBERING what to do and

making a conscious effort to do it.

Make a commitment to yourself right now that you will take the time and effort it takes

to master this skill. Read this over and over again until every word is burned

into your brain. There is a TON of terrific and HIGHLY IMPORTANT subtle points in there,

and when you master all of them, you’ll be amazed at just how powerfully women respond to

you.
      
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