20 Sexy Questions To Ask a Guy and Seduce Him

Do you like talking naughty with a guy? Here are 20 sexy questions to ask a guy that’ll turn him on instantly and get him talking dirty in no time. 

In today's world, you may spend more time texting your crush than actually hanging out with him. This means that you should not only be able to flirt with your crush in person, but through your texts. If you want to flirt through texting, you have to know how to be playful, witty, and charming in just a sentence or two.

Speaking face to face is easy.

But it’s not easy if you’re trying to talk naughty with a guy for the first time.

Talking dirty face to face can be awkward, or one of you may have a hard time holding that burst of laughter inside.

If you want to know how to be seductive over text then you first have to know that there is an art to it. Although you want to flirt and tease you also don’t want to appear too easy to get.
Being seductive with a guy when you are texting, instant messaging or through email, can be fun if you know the right way to do it.
Like everything else in the world of attraction, there are right and wrong ways to do things. Keep reading for a list of great tips that can help you be seductive when you are texting a guy.

1. One of the most important things you have to remember is to make it not appear obvious that you are the one that is doing all the flirting as you don’t want him to take you for granted or think that you are easy to get.
2. Always make it seem like he is the one that is seducing you and you will see just how much fun the texting can be. This is key to the process.
3. When you text him let him know that you have remembered something he did or said, as this is a big compliment to a guy and he will feel warmer towards you and will be thinking about you. You could say something like “I just remembered that thing that you did or said and how sexy it was” or something along those lines.
4. A great way to kick start his attraction in a neutral, non-direct manner: ask him what his favorite part of a girl’s body is.
5. Always use his name when you text him as it makes it much more intimate. Try and give him a nice cheeky pet name and then use that as well, as it will bond you with each other.
6. Try to arouse him in a discreet way. Don’t do it directly as you must let him think that he is doing some the work. You could say that you are “trying on some new underwear” or that you “just come out of the shower” and let his mind wander a little. This is one of the best ways to arouse a guy because it is making him think of you in a sexy way.
7. Keep things short and don’t try to explain yourself all the time. Keep a bit of mystery as guys love this even if they don’t know why.
8. Don’t flirt when you are texting in an obvious way as then he will think that you do this with all the guys. Your ultimate goal here is to make HIM think dirty, not you. If you can do this then it will make him want to seduce you as he will think that he is chasing you and not the other way around.
9. Try to be sweet as well as seductive when you text him. Guys love compliments just as much as girls. That way he will try harder to please you.
10. Once you are ready to escalate your seduction efforts, you can ask him “If I were with you right now what would we be doing?” then let him take the lead.
11. Try not to be clingy. If he doesn’t respond to your sexy text quickly just leave it be. If a guy doesn’t respond it could be that he is busy doing something or just not interested enough. If he really likes you then he will text you back quite quickly, or will give you a sincere reason for not texting back.
12. Don’t let the conversation go on too long otherwise you risk getting him bored. Either end the texting before he does or change the subject. You have to keep things interesting or he will get bored.

If you want to know how to be seductive, then use your imagination on what to say to the guy that you are texting. As long as you don’t come across as too forward, then being a little seductive can make him get hot under the collar. It will make him focus his mind on you and no one else and make him want to see you as quickly as he can.
Seductive texting is an art, but if done properly it can make a man putty in your hands. The only problem is, once you do have him all hot under the collar because of your seductive texting, then you may have to be prepared to see things through (to go all the way). So only text him seductively if you really want to get your man to take you out, or into bed.

Sexy questions to ask a guy

If you’d want to, you can ask these questions in person.

But I’d suggest you do it via a text.

Text these questions one after the other in the order I’ve mentioned and there’s a huge chance that both of you would be making out with each other within an hour or so.

Are you ready to put these sexy questions that’ll get him in your bed to the test?

The right questions to ask the guy you like

There are many kinds of sexy questions you can ask a guy.

But if you want to turn him on in no time, you have to remember to start off by warming him up and eventually getting more personal and intimate with each passing question.

Ask questions to which you already know the answers to. But hear it from him.

Don’t make it seem like you’re the only one asking all the dirty questions. By using these questions, you’ll make his answers get more and more naughty with each passing question, so it’ll always seem like he’s the one making all the moves.

Be subtle in your questions, at least at the beginning and get dirtier with each question you ask. And always remember this, avoid asking him questions that make him focus on anything other than you once you’re halfway past the 20 questions.

Text him when you know he’s all alone and has no plans for the night. Your focus is to seduce him into sleeping with you without ever appearing like the desperate one.

Trust me, stick to these 20 questions and I assure you, he’ll be in your bedroom before the night is over!

The sexy questions to make him come to you

Start off by texting something normal and try to figure out if he’s available to text you for an hour or so without any interruptions. These questions are open ended questions and he’ll ask you for your answers all the time too. Play coy, but let him know you’re enjoying the texts when you respond to him. And you’ll be able to work your magic and seduce him in an hour’s time with these texts!

#1 Do you like talking naughty?

 (this one sparks up interest...most guys love girls who can be naughty without sounding whore-ish)

#2 Do you check me out when I walk away?

(Hmm...considering #1, he's already set on naughty mode so his answer is gonna be something u'll love when u hear it)

#3 Do you think you’re a good kisser? 

( Hahaha.... he'll give his left nut to hear you say he is)

#4 Has anyone ever accidentally seen you naked?

(Wow...test and see for yourself)

#5 Have you ever skinny dipped?

(Swim naked...)

#6 What are you wearing right now?

(Just my boxers baby...oh...sorry i forgot..i sleep NAKED..)

#7 What’s the sexiest outfit a girl should wear to turn you on?

(My bro ICE is a sucker for short skirts/gowns....even if the girl has the face of an oglop)

#8 What kind of outfit would look best on me?

(ummm.... None. Birthday suit up if u ask Chris...*grins

Here, you're working his imagination chamber to overheat)

#9 Would you help me pick that outfit if I asked you to?

(works in 3 ways ...u get a free dress...u get him to bring it over...u get some ass time)

 

#10 What’s your favorite part of a girl’s body?

(ummm....is this supposed to be a question?...the "#$*&" of course)

 

#11 Which part of a girl’s body do you think tattoos look best?

( Personally above the waistline... a friend of mine says She believes classy girls dont need tatoos, No one intentionally scratches a "BENTLY" or "ROLLSROYCE". So if you have a "permanent" tatoo on ur body, ur a "MOLUE" or "KEKE").

 

#12 What do you wear when you go to bed?

( The point here is he gets to ask you back and you get the chance to seduce the fuck outta him with your answer...and making him feel sexy by giving him the impression you're thinking of him in naughty ways)

 

#13 How do you like a good massage from a girl?

( You're simply trying to wound this dude )

 

#14 What’s your idea of good foreplay?

(by making him talk naughty, you're turning him on)

 

#15 What’s your favorite sexual fantasy?

(Here you get to know what turns your man on....and use it as an advantage to strike deeper cuts...

 Mine is simple ...My '1' in your '0'...methods can be invented subsequently....lol)

  

#16 Do you think we’d do something funny if we get drunk together?

( Still feeding him the thoughts and letting him lead the advance)

#17 Have you ever sexted your picture?

(Sexting implies sending sexually explicit messages or photos basically from a mobile phone....)

#18 Have you ever felt horny while texting on the phone?

(oh yes....right now he is ...)

#19 If I was with you right now, what would you do to me?

(We all know the honest answer to that one.... its not like a guy has any hindrance like "Menses'...or do they?)

#20 How long will it take for you to get here? 

( with that...the hook is cast....if he's within your proximity he will surely come storming through with his erection confidently probing his pants)

Don’t think these 20 questions to ask a guy can get the guy you like into bed with you before the end of the text conversation?

Try it, you’ll be surprised. Just remember to avoid trying to sound funny, focus on feeling sexy and let him know that you’re horny!

Can you think of any other questions to ask a guy that can work its magic into seducing a guy and getting him in your bed in no time? Add your thoughts, it’ll definitely help a reader get a guy she wants in her bed!

And i"ll talk to you again soon,
....... Your Friend

.....LEONHART

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Dirty Questions to Ask a Girl and Make Her Wet

Girls play hard to get almost all the time.

It’s a good thing though, or you wouldn’t really think she’s worth the effort.

But sometimes, it’s easier to turn on a girl than date her.

When it comes to dating a girl, she’d instinctively know you’re hitting on her.

If you discreetly warm her up to your flirty touches, you’ll see that seducing a girl can be rather easy if she thinks you’re a great guy.

If you know how to be discreet, you can make a girl fall for you or even turn her on in just a few conversations.

But here, i’ll get to seducing a girl with just 20 simple questions, preferably via texts.

It’s easy to ask these questions when you’re sitting with her, but if she feels uncomfortable or believes you’re trying too hard or going too fast, you may end up blowing your chances. And you’ll have a hard time making her like you again.

On the other hand, by texting a few sexy questions to a girl, you can always make it seem like a joke if she doesn’t warm up to you.

It’s an easy, safe and a foolproof way to turn a girl on from a distance.

Use these questions, and if you charm the girl the right way, you could charm the pants off her and make out with her by the time you reach the twentieth question!

The right questions to ask a girl

Just use these questions and keep the conversation going by answering any other questions she may ask. It’ll all work out in your favor if you play it carefully and stick to these questions all along the way.

And the best part, it’ll work wonders if she’s your girlfriend or even if she’s a flirty girl you have a crush on. Ask her these questions late at night for best results!

#1 Are you alone? This question is perfect to understand if she’s idle and all alone at home. You obviously can’t flirt or talk sex if her friends are around her. Say something bold like “I wish I could be there with you” when she reciprocates with an affirmative.

#2 What are you doing right now? 

Play it nice and slow. This can help you be certain that she’s alone and bored enough to give you her complete attention.

#3 Do you like cuddling when you lie in bed?

 Warm her up to a flirty conversation without overstepping the line. This can help open her up by talking about cuddling with someone else.

#4 What do you wear when you go to bed? / What are you wearing? 

A curious question that’s perfect to ask a girl when she’s in bed already. It’s personal, and yet not too sexual. Say something like “Gosh, I can only imagine how cute you look right now” when she describes herself.

If it’s your girlfriend, ask her what’s she’s wearing and if she doesn’t mention her lingerie *which she may not without a bit of coaxing*, ask about her lingerie and also the color. A perfect start.

#5 What do you think you look sexiest in?

 Get her to talk sexual by talking about her sexy clothing. It’s flattering and definitely sexual.

#6 Have you ever watched someone else make out accidentally or on purpose? 

This question gets both of you in the mood. And yet, by directing it at a third person, you can avoid any uncomfortable situation at the start.

 

#7 Has a guy even touched you or discreetly groped you while clubbing or in a crowded place? Girls have a thing about sexual groping. Even if it’s accidental, it’s something they just don’t forget. You can answer something like “I wish I could have been that guy!” after she tells you about an incident she likes.

#8 Have you ever made out with a guy just because you were horny at that time? Find out if she’s a girl who can be coaxed into having sex with a guy in the heat of the moment.

#9 If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of a guy’s body *below his shoulders* would you see first?

 Time to get naughty. Really, how many things can a girl take a look at below a guy’s shoulders? Let her answer the question so you always make it seem like she’s the one talking dirty and not you.

#10 Do you like boxers or briefs? 

This is a clichéd question and even if a girl doesn’t care about it, she’d most probably say that she likes a boxer. Answer this question by telling her what you’re wearing. The whole focus here is to get her to think of your package without really making it obvious.

#11 What’s your secret move to turn a guy on? 

By asking her to visualize making out with a guy and describe it to you, you’re making her fantasize about sex. And at the same time, she may go into details just to prove how good she is sexually.

#12 If there’s one place a guy should touch you to make you horny, which is that? 

This goes straight to sex and arousal. And if she does answer this truthfully, in all probability, she’s already aroused.

#13 Does a massage make you wet? 

A full body massage makes almost all girls wet. You can always tell her something like “Just so you know, I came first in my masseuse class and I would love to give you a massage. And don’t worry, now that I know you get horny while getting a massage, I’ll linger in all the right places.”

#14 If I kissed your lips accidentally while kissing goodbye, would you mind it?

 Make her imagine your kiss. It’s a perfect question to get her to pucker up.

#15 Do you like giving an oral or getting one? 

No matter what she answers, you can always answer with the opposite of what she says. If she likes giving an oral, say you like getting it. If she likes getting it, tell her you love giving it!

#16 How do you think my body would look better, shaved or natural?

 Isn’t it a nice thought to know that the girl you like is picturing you naked the minute you ask her this question?

#17 What should a guy do to make you wet?

 Get straight to the sweet spot. And when she does answer this question, talk about question #12 again and get descriptive about her pleasure spots.

#18 If I were whispering all these questions in your ear, would you be turned on? 

If you’ve got the conversation going this far, she’s obviously wet already. But it always sounds a lot better hearing it from the girl you’re texting.

#19 If you didn’t have a boyfriend, do you think we would have made out with each other? / If I were with you right now, do you think we would have kissed each other?

 This question can actually get you into her bed, but you need to wait for the last question to get an invitation from her.

#20 If a guy wants to come over to your place and make out with you right now, would you like that? Don’t talk about yourself just yet, unless you already know she wants you to come over. If she answers “yes”, go full speed ahead to her place. Otherwise, play the seduction game for a few more minutes before telling her you want to come to her place right that instant.

Just use these 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and you definitely would make her wet. And if you’re charming and lucky, you could also get into her bed or her to yours!

And i"ll talk to you again soon,
....... Your Friend

.....LEONHART

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THE FRIEND ZONE and HOW TO AVOID IT

WHAT IS FRIEND-ZONE?
Let me clear you all on this... it could be a guy or girl in the zone and not only a guy as many presume. A friend zone is a happy place for a girl. It’s a place where she and a guy can sit together and talk about anything and get real friendly with each other.
For a guy, a friend zone is the worst place to be in, especially when he likes the girl who behaves like a friend.
In a friend zone, the two involved friends of the opposite sex are just friends and nothing more. They project no sexual interest towards each other and behave in a completely platonic manner.
But can any guy ever be friends with a girl he finds sexually attractive? Or course not. He can try to be a friend with the hope of getting an occasional cuddle or a warm boob pressing hug now and then, but he’s always going to be just be a friend while she dates every other guy.
          

The friend zone is a tricky place to fall in.
You may be trying hard to get close to a girl, close enough to tell her that you like her, but one fine day she turns around and tells you that you’re such a great friend, or worse, you’re just like a brother to her.
Ever been there?
I hope you haven’t.

Guys find themselves falling into the friend zone almost all the time.
It’s frustrating and demeaning, and at times, inevitable.
You may get really close to a girl with all the hopes of getting into her pants, but somewhere along the way, you may have taken a few detours that led you right into the friend zone.
Before going further, I would like to define the friend zone again. Understanding the problem can help with the solution...
The "friend zone" refers to a situation where there is a mismatch in romantic feelings between two individuals. For example, sometimes this is a sexual attraction mismatch, where one person is interested in romance while the other wants to "just be friends". At other times, the friends are already sexually involved (i.e. friends-with-benefits), but there is a commitment mismatch, where only one person wants a "relationship" as a committed girlfriend or boyfriend.
Overall then, the friend zone occurs in relationships where both individuals' emotional needs are not getting met. Someone is not getting what they want and need. Because all good relationships are built from a mutually-satisfying social exchange and trade... friend zone situations ultimately don't feel very good.
Therefore, when someone gets stuck in the friend zone, they have entered into an exchange that is not fair or equal. The other person is getting everything he/she wants...but the person stuck in the friend zone is not fully satisfied. In a nutshell, the friend zoned person sold himself or herself short. They gave their "friend" everything, without making sure they got everything they wanted in return.

HOW GUYS END UP IN THE FRIEND ZONE

#1 The Fear of Rejection

       Another reason why people end up in the friend zone is that they are too afraid, uncertain, or passive. Many people approach someone they are attracted to as "just a friend" because it is easier and less emotionally-risky. In other situations, they may desire a committed relationship, but begin as a "hookup" or "friends-with-benefits" because that too is easier. In any case, these individuals begin the interaction by not clearly communicating what they want - and settling for less. Sometimes, this is honestly done out of insecurity. Other times, it is a bit "sneaky", using friendship to work their way in the "back door" - rather than simply facing rejection up front. No matter what the reason though, the process seldom works. Sure, there are exceptions of hookups turning into lovers, or "friends" blossoming into love, but those are rare - and usually involve some sort of mutual interest in dating to start.

Therefore, rather than getting stuck in the friend zone by being scared or devious, it is often more productive to state what is desired up front. It is better to make an even and honest trade. If the other person is not willing or interested, then it is better to simply walk away and find someone else who is. Deception doesn't avoid the friend zone...neither does settling for less than is desired.
Besides, asking for a date outright can be pretty successful. Research by Hald and Høgh-Olesen (2010) found that 68% of single men and 43% of single women agreed to a date request by a stranger of average attractiveness. Therefore, with a little help, it is more easy and productive to simply ask for what you want up front.

# 2  Being a wuss

The final reason why people end up in the friend zone is because they are simply too nice. They do all of the work. They make all of the concessions and sacrifices. They make it very "easy" for the other person to be with them. In the process, they also tend to get taken for granted, devalued, and forgotten (Tosin sorry o). Put simply, people value what they work to obtain and invest in. They have more attraction and respect for individuals for whom they perform favors (Jecker & Landy, 1969). They also find relationships more valuable and commit more fully, when they invest in them in various ways (Coleman, 2009).

Therefore, by doing all the work, an individual puts himself or herself "in" the friend zone. When they do all the investing...they develop all of the loving feelings. The other person does not.

Thus, to avoid the friend zone, effort and investment must be balanced on both sides. Each person must give and contribute in equal amounts. Both people's needs must be satisfied at roughly equal measures. If the other person doesn't offer...then ask!





A guy falls into a friend zone for very obvious reasons. He behaves like a friend. And he never lets the girl know that he has more than friendly intentions on his mind.
And soon enough, the girl loses all realization of the fact that this guy has a package down there. And he just becomes another sexless thing she hangs out with all the time as a platonic friend.
So why do some guys end up as friends instead of boyfriends or sex buddies? Here’s why.
#3 They get too close. Getting too close to a girl on platonic grounds will never help you. You may assume that it’s the easiest way to get a girl to know you better. She’ll definitely get to know you better, but only as a friend.
#4 No sexual chemistry. If a guy likes a girl, he has to make it subtly obvious that he’s sexually interested in her. If a guy behaves like a pushover and a doormat, no girl will feel even a tingle of sexual chemistry. I've escorted my friend Oluwatosin (crawler) to drop off a girl he liked so much at another guys place. She called him up, asked him to come over and when he did....on her request we chauffeured her to this other guy... i felt like crying.
#5 The girl’s not attracted to the guy. This sucks, but this is the most common scenario. The guy’s probably creepy, annoying or just not good enough to be her boyfriend.

#6 The guy thinks she’s too good for him. At times, a guy may genuinely believe that the girl he likes is way too good for him. And instead of hitting on her, he secretly lusts for her, but gives up on pursuing her. Could you ever live with yourself by just being the friend of a sexy girl who dates every other guy but you? And while looking at her pix you probably beat up your manhood every night till it cries. (hahahaha)

 

#7 He plays the true friend card. It works in the movies all the time. The girl has a best friend who’s always there for her. She goes ahead and dates every single guy in the world, and finally, at the end of the movie she sees her true love in the form of her best friend. How touching! And that’s why they call it the movies. In real life, you can’t become a girl’s boyfriend just by behaving like a best friend.



 


HOW TO AVOID and GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE

It’s really easy to avoid the friend zone. All you need to do is drop a few hints now and then to let her know that you’re really into her. Use these easy tips to get the message across and get her to desire you while you’re at it.

#1  Flirt
The main difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship is intimacy. If she views you as a friendly person she can vent to about her problems you will remain in the friend zone, but if you start to make moves and flirt with her, she may start to show some interest with you. Ask her out on a date, this is especially useful in the early stages of the friendship, but may be awkward if you have been friends long-term.

  #2   Distance yourself and make her want you
Just like men, women want what they cannot have, which means if you are always at her disposal then you will remain just her friend. Try working out, build muscle, lose weight, and maybe even further your education to make her feel that you have more value. Keep your distance with her during your self improvement stage; this may make her approach you for a relationship instead of the other way around. However, if you stay there to talk to her as just a friend you will never be able to get out of the friend zone.

#3   Stop talking to her as a friend

     We have all been there, the girl talks to you about her relationship trouble, or her personal problems. She views you as a safe bet and does not want to ruin her friendship with you by complicating it; however, do you really want to hear about how the person she is dating has an amazing body, or do you want her bragging about you?

#4 Be a friend without behaving like her other friends. 
 Don’t talk nonsense for hours or spend time talking about her problems in life. Talk about places she visits, movies she’s watched, and her plans for the weekend. Talk date talk and she’ll sense the chemistry in the air.

#5 Try to talk to her when she’s alone. If her other friends are around, talk to her if you must or just avoid her. You can’t really hit on a girl when she’s surrounded by a bevy of friends.
But when you find her alone, make sure you turn on your charm and impress her. See her alone? Chat her up. And if one of her friends come by, grumble audibly in a funny manner and say something like “just when I thought I was going to get some alone time with you, this guy pops up out of nowhere!” and just laugh. She’ll be confused and wonder if you’re being serious or just joking.
But she’ll get the hint that you like spending time with her alone. Make it obvious that you like spending time with her in whatever way possible, but don’t ask her out or tell her you like her just yet.
#6 Compliment her when she deserves it. 
Flatter her pants off. If she looks good, tell her she looks hot. If you see a hint of cleavage and she catches you staring, just laugh, apologize and tell it you couldn’t resist it. Add a few funny sexual remarks and you’ll never get into the friend zone.

#7 Touch her and treat her like your girlfriend.
 But do it respectfully though. Clasp her hand while crossing the street and open doors for her when it’s just the both of you. Make her feel like a queen, and she’ll love the attention. But when her friends are around, don’t give her any preferential treatment. Let her realize that you’re special to her only when it’s just the two of you.
#8 Make her feel special and exclusive. 
Gift her something small and personal, but tell her to keep it a secret. When you create secrets, you build sexual chemistry and suspense which leads to romance.

#9 Ask her out and change the topic. 
When you’re talking to her for a while, ask her out for lunch or a few drinks. See how she responds. But within a second, change the topic. Don’t wait for her to answer. It’ll seem like a joke, but it’ll still make her wonder if you really do want to date her. Don’t make things awkward by waiting a while before saying something else. Keep it simple, keep it funny and yet reveal all the dirty thoughts in your mind, and change the topic immediately.

And i"ll talk to you again soon,
....... Your Friend 

.....LEONHART

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ONE NIGHT STANDS

As the title suggests, I haven’t indulged in it (straight face) but I do know people, from both genders, who have, and it seems that a One-Night-Stand isn't as immoral or hurtful as most people perceive it. Here, from my limited understanding of this subject, I am trying to present the advantages that a One-Night-Stand is most likely to offer. AND this is from a non-religious standpoint so take note before you spit fire. Your comments, no matter how critical, are most welcome.

One-Night-Stands When You Cannot Handle Emotional Bonding at the Moment

For all those who have been through break-ups, heartbreaks and the heartache that follows would understand that there are phases in our lives when we don’t want to get emotionally involved. 

During such circumstances, the need of being physically connected to another human being, the craving to feel that raw bedroom passion still surfaces. In such a scenario, what possibilities do you have? Do you tell your hormones and your brain to mind themselves and just shut-up? Do you leave yourself frustrated which is bound to happen since you are denying yourself something that your mind and body yearn for? The solution to this seems like a One-Night-Stand. Since the groundwork and principles for it are already set, it ensures that you wouldn’t need to carry an emotional baggage. Since it is mutual, it is “expected” that your partner too is seeking something similar. So, if two, like-minded (Adult) souls gets connected, though for just a night, doesn’t seem like they are committing a crime.

One-Night-Stands When You are Invited to One

At least among the metros of our nation, women are equally sexually-aggressive. So, there is every chance that you might be asked to a One-Night-Stand. Here, some naysayers might say that the invitation itself could be morally flawed. The lady in question might be married, engaged or committed to somebody else. However, I would like to pose a question here? Unless the person with whom she is involved with is somebody known or close to you, do you really want to decode what has forced the lady to seek a One-Night-Stand outside her relationship? Since she is the one who has set things in motion and her man isn't someone with whom you share friendly or family relations, does the moral compass really point towards you? In my skewed opinion, it doesn’t. You have something to gain from this proposed, night of pleasure and you didn’t precipitate the situation, so the guilt should dilute itself away.

One-Night-Stands When Your Self-Esteem, Confidence Needs a Boost

Men are equally prone to having phases of low self-esteem and unexplained, depressive tendencies as women. The fact that men also suffer from hormonal mood swings has been established by medical researchers. Something similar could be a situation where you are struggling to uphold your self-confidence(ego)—the inherent feeling of cheerfulness has just deserted you. The absence of a girlfriend has further alienated you from the comforting support of a companion and the emotional highs of being sexually active.

Indulging in a One-Night-Stand seems to offer an instant solution to this. Some of the more suave or prudish men might take objection to it but most men like me would agree that a good performance in the bedroom and seeing that unmistakable look of absolute pleasure on a lady’s face tends to pump the male ego without any parallels. 

Like I said before, a One-Night-Stand is mutual and if you are able to solve your confidence issues from it and offer a night of pleasure to another human being, where is the shame in it? It has been medically established that sex is the strongest of natural antidotes for depression, anxiety, bodily pains and various illnesses. Here, having a One-Night-Stand almost equals self-therapy! 

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Your Friend

LEONHART

PROFILE PICTURE DO's and DONT's

      Am back Friends, sorry for leaving. On return i had to deal with tons of mails and requests.. And on this note...

If I see one more Facebook friend request by some shirtless dude posing in a bathroom mirror holding a camera phone I think I will organize an etiquette posse.  And ladies, please for the love of Snookie, stop with the full booty 

poses, puckered lips and stilettos.  Sure, Facebook is fun and should be a reflection of your personality, so if you are in no need of a job, shower, shelter or friends, then I guess that picture of you picking your nose won’t be such a big deal.  For the rest of us, looking good in those tiny little squares could be the difference between getting a job or landing a date.

If we’re to believe the marketing geniuses at Match.com, one in five couples now meets online. I’ve been looking, and dang, have we seen some messed up profile pictures. Listen, it’s sad but true, but your online dating profile pic can make the difference between somebody asking you out or moving right along. Women are superficial, they know these things and are guilty of passing on perfectly nice guys because they looked stanky in their pics. As such, we’ve come up with a simple list of dos and don’ts for both men and women to follow when selecting their all-important profile images. These suggestions have been culled with the help of our friends who have looked at countless online profiles, too, so they know what they’re talking about.

FOR GUYS

DON’T include photos of yourself with more attractive friends. Actually, try not to include pictures of yourself with friends, period. It just confuses women. You don’t want them inquiring after your friend Chris do you?

DON’T include photos of yourself with girls. Yeah, yeah, women get it: you want to prove to them that you’ve, in fact, touched a real live girl before. But that’s the thing — it’s so obvious that’s what you’re doing, that women see you as really desperate. 

DO include pictures of yourself with your pets — if they happen to be cuddly puppies or kittens. But probably leave the animal pics out if you happen to be a herpetologist or rat hoarder or something.

DON’T use a professional headshot. The only people who really want to date struggling actors are … nobody.

DON’T lead with your Halloween or team/school Mascot costume. They don’t know you. They don’t know if you as a giant banana is your Halloween look or just your average Tuesday.

DO include pics of yourself doing cool stuff. But not, like, 10 pictures of you playing in a band. Also, most girls over the age of 23 aren’t trying to get with a dude in a band. 

DO remember that girls pay a lot of attention to stuff like shoes — things that you probably don’t really think about. Wear good shoes in your picture.

DO include at least one mostly full body pic, otherwise they’re going to assume you’re hiding a tumor, or a tail or a bizarrely chubby leg….lol

FOR GIRLS

DON’T include a “quirky” photo of yourself with a fake mustache, or a mustache tattoo, or a mustache hat, or just no mustaches. Apparently this is a thing that lots of girls do — it must be the International Symbol for Manic Pixie Dream Girl or something. Just … don’t.

DON’T include photos you’ve taken of yourself in the bathroom mirror. It just seems sort of sad and pathetic. Don’t you do anything fun? Don’t you have exciting little candid moments in life? Come on! If not, grab a friend or roommate and fake it.

DON’T post a zillion pictures of yourself in a bikini — unless you’re looking to attract the type of juicehead dudes who are looking for girls who spend the majority of their days in bikinis. You reap what you sow — especially when it comes to online profile photos.

DO show a pic of what you look on the day-to-day. He’s going to find out anyway, and most guys would rather deal with reality than with some totally fake version of you.

DON’T post a prom pic, or some weird formal event picture. Are you a princess? No, you’re not, and he’s not going to expect to see you dolled up like one every day. Unless you are a princess, in which case, ignore this point and commence with the tiara.

DO include photos of yourself having fun, but like, not too much fun. Not falling on the floor, ass out fun. Keep it together, girl.

…………And just to add to this………

Take in (or take out) the light.

Lighting can be your best friend or your worst enemy.  Broad, flat lighting is what’s common for model photos, but for the rest of us mere mortals, it’s not for everybody, especially if you have an extra 20 to lose.

 Learn to channel the power of light and you’re more than halfway to picture-perfect.  if you have a wide face, introduce some shadows–it has a slimming effect.  If you have a narrow face broad light works well most of the time. (Ma’am take note).

Secondly, shots from under the chin are just bad, bad, and bad.  You lose the shape of your jawbone, see flaring nostrils and possible boogers.  Here’s an insider secret: point the tip of your nose to the center of the camera and it will always give you the best nose and jaw shots ( Snatasha take note).

Thirdly, Take a cue from models on this one–sit up straight and drop your shoulders.  “It elongates the neck and gives a regal look.

And i'll talk to you again soon...

Your Friend

LEONHART