TRUTH LOST IN A BAG OF LIES....(RESPONSE TO WOMAN)

Am going to write this just to have fun... so if it stirs anger of hate or rash comments, then maybe i can call it an article of truth.. (because the truth is always bitter).

 

We often make mistakes of saying "if he loves me... he'll accept me the way I am".

They oft' forget that maybe, just maybe..the "way you are" isn't the right way you should be. Perhaps a little adjustment or change here and there. 

 

You wear make-up because you know u need to brush up on what is already available even though God in his infinite wisdom created you without them. 

Why do I say this... I will explain.

It is true, not all relationships are meant to be. Some are meant to lead to marriage. Some are for experience, some just to soothe a lonely spirit or for companionship, Some for Sex. Some last just a long distance and crash along the way when you discover you can do better... etc let's not broaden this comment more than it will be. 

Now, a man is a complex personality. But before I describe him I will say something about women. 

God created woman, we all accept that. as both helper and companion. And a woman depends on man for almost everything including her feelings. 

However some women who believe they are independent of men... still go ahead to date men and string them along only for material and sexual gratification and when I say "men" I mean the plural form i.e they don't keep one. These same women,when they find a man who they feel meets their qualifications... begin to grumble when they discover the man was "just passing by" if you know what I mean. 

Perhaps the man can see beyond their new pretend behavior of content. Why are they trying to change from their former slutty ways when they meet an Alpha Male....Why don't they stay there and wait for the man to "Love them as they are". 

Adjustments are necessary in new situations. 

A man is a polygamous entity in nature... hate it or love it. Finding and keeping one exclusively is not entirely impossible but requires a bit of factors working in your favor. 

1. Love (obviously the greatest but weak on it own)

2. Upbringing (way and manner he was trained )

3. Religion (how close to God he is)

4. Environment (Where he finds himself or how exposed he is).

5. Mindset/Conscience (How he sees women)

6. You (your effort as a woman).

Let me stop there for now but notice that YOU "the woman" are only number six (6) on the list. And not 1, 2 or 3. Not even top 5

When looking for  a serious relationship many things must be put in check. 

If you know you're a weakling that cannot stand the heat of competition or fight for their man as some women would do in a heartbeat then you should be ready for a long life of search, misery, heartbreak and perhaps when it all ends...settling with someone you would only manage or lie to yourself that u love because you're tired of the wait. (you'll end up banging that your neighbors hot husband that screams and yells at her like a dog still....yes because HE is THE MAN...and not your docile remote controlled toy you call husband). 

You meet a bunch of Nice guys that are ready to lie on the ground for you to step on them and pass but you want that "bad boy" that all the wizened up cats and vixens use to keep their libido's sated (satisfied) . Why? Because you want to be able to stand proud and say...that's my man.  

And you think you'll keep him by doing his laundry and fucking him. (just like a million other girls will also do if given the chance). And u believe when you do those things for him it makes you special... you even remind him how you do chores for him like it's a very special thing? (don't do it now...someone else will...gladly..with "Jara" like my people say).

Before you meet a man for a new relationship, remember that there are ticks and lice (old flames and stubborn habits). 

You.... that is his new ringworm... in your bid for exclusive attention you forget that he has to treat his other afflictions (which of course he won't admit to having).... While you are around ensure you use a triple action drug while washing his head so it will kill off both known and unknown.

 

What am I saying... don't assume you have come to stay and get comfortable. Remember that Old flames not well quenched can rekindle at the blow of air. And those old flames are not happy that someone is eating where they tilled and toiled. They would try to accommodate the knowledge of your existence but that don't mean they're not waiting (if not plotting) for u to fail as they did...and take advantage of the Window. (time b/w breakup and getting a new love).

Now I must correct some misconceptions in words women use: (Note that they are mostly true...but in this case... I am going to use my responses as those exceptions to every rule)

1.  If a man wants you nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't nothing can make him stay. 

(sounds good to those suffering or recovering from heartache/heartbreak... often used by psychologists to make one feel better.)

 

Even if a man truly loves you, there's a lot that can keep him away no matter how hard he fights. Incompatible lovers tend to go downstream not because the love failed to exist but because they both belong to different schools of thought or his one and your zero are not a perfect fit. Etc. Mail me if u wanna hear more.

2. "Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that is not meant to be" 

(this is another Mumbo -Jumbo... its just like saying "don't get attracted to jerks"... attraction is not a choice. you don't just DECIDE to be attracted to someone...its an innate involuntary action brought about by the amount of chemistry one is able to build over first to subsequent impressions. 

 

In that light... u don't just DECIDE to stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's NOT MEANT to be. How do you know at the onset it's not meant to be... how do you know during trying periods it's not meant to be.... So if you're a dry/ no-fun piece of complaining quick tempered ass and your attitude is threatening your relationship, you won't change? 

You'd conclude it's not meant to be and go on to another man to bore his life to death as well? 

Most times we need only look in the mirror to see the cause of our problems.

3. Slower is better...Never live your life for a man.

(Well that's good advice, and I agree with you. That's how it ought to be...However it's not my fault that The creator disagrees with the both of us ... Genesis 3:16 ... this one goes out to all the "independent women". continue telling yourself what makes you feel better.  It's okay to be independent of a man's finances and all that but that bond is spiritual and there's nothing you and I can say about it. The bible ended that case.  So...next. 

4. If you "feel" like he's stringing you along then he probably is .. don't stay because you think it will get better. (a. Very true... yes leave... b. Coward. you're too weak for competition. Run away anytime u feel threatened, afterall you're the lowest on the food chain abi?.)  put in some fight if u can and bail if u can't. There's another man waiting for you and another girl too for him. 

5. Avoid men who've got a bunch of kids from different women, he didn't marry them. Why would he treat you any better. 

(Well, I guess you can guess your answer from Annie Marcauly, baby mama turned wife to Innocent Idibia a.k.a 2face). 

Shebi he was stringing her along abi? Now she's enjoying her patience. Despite all his cheating and misbehavior. 

6. If a relationship ends because he's not treating you right then heck you cannot be friends. A friend won't mistreat a friend.  

( whatever, perhaps you'd rather be enemies with someone you still have love for... 

Remember it was once a relationship... unless you were never friends before... why would he be cruel to you. try to find out where you went wrong so at least you don't repeat it in your next relationship or you can remain a bitter person. your choice.

7. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. 

(So would he when you don't tell him. Have your secrets but don't let them drown you). 

8. Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are even if he has a better education and job. 

(in that case he doesn't need you to make him feel he's better than you... he is...at least for now... and he knows it. focus on your hustle and keep your pride in your pocket. No matter what you think of yourself...at some point in life someone must lord over you. you're always answerable to someone...don't hastily forget genesis 3:16

Bottom-line, Don't lose in your Angle... but if you do....don't be a sore loser. pick up your pieces...patch it up and learn...then proceed. 

Don't sit and tell yourself you're a victim of this world's Bad boy Syndrome and try to make others drown in your ideology. It's not their fault someone else beat you at your own game.

i wonder what you will do when you get to understand what Isiah 4:1 actually means...maybe then you will learn to stand and fight rather than nag and complain.

However, Guys... You can see what your Games are causing. Slow down. at least till Isiah 4:1 starts happening full time. lol

And i"ll talk to you again soon,
....... Your Friend

.....LEONHART

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ADVICE TO WOMEN FROM A WOMAN...

This is a piece from a woman, she wanted to give advice to all the women she could reach and am supposed to upload it verbatim (as is) so here goes....

“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.” “Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.” “Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.” “If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think ‘it will get better.’ You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.” “Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?” “Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.” “You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.” “He is a man; nothing more, nothing less.” “Never let a man define who you are.” “Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.” “A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.” “All men are NOT dogs.” “You should not be the one doing all the bending–compromise is a two-way street.” “If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t ‘be friends.’ A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.” “The only person you can control in a relationship is you.” “Always have your own set of friends separate from his” “Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.” “Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or a better job.” “Do not make him into a quasi-god.” "The only man that's exceptional to this write-up is the one who puts a ring on your finger" Hi gorgeous, you are pretty. Pretty as your name. You know it, clap your hands. This is a toast to you, for the man who has you, and the losers who lost you. Lucky are the dudes who are going to meet you.

And i'll talk to y'all again soon (personally)
               Your Friend 
         Chrisking Leonhart

Questions to Test Your Relationship Compatibility

Are you and your lover thinking along the same lines? Here are some relationship questions that can help both of you understand each other better.

A relationship is all about compatibility.

Opposites attract all the time, but too many opposites and no similarities won’t really help a relationship succeed.

When you have small differences, it makes them cute.

But when you have differences in your approach to life or your ethics about relationships, it’s definitely not good for the romance.

One of you could compromise, but that’s not really an option for the long term, is it?

Are you in a relationship with someone for around a year or so?

Then these questions will definitely help both of you test your compatibilities and understand each other better.

Do you find yourself getting angry with your partner for no reason at all? Perhaps, there are some overlooked issues that you need to face together.

Relationship questions to create better love

Sit down with your partner on a lazy Sunday afternoon, ask each other these questions and have an open mind. To make it easier for your partner so they don’t assume any of these are trick questions, you answer first so they know your views too (risky though if it’s the man asking and answering first, women tend to customize their answers to resemble yours and to protect the relationship.. e.g when u ask how many people u dated in life and the man says 5…even if she’s dated an uncountable figure she’ll put it around or below the guys own figure).

Don’t let any questions annoy you and don’t ever clam up or go on the defensive. Remember, the answers to these questions should be truthful and help both of you understand each other better.

And by the time you’re done with the questions, you’d know more about each other and would also understand each other’s approach to life too.

#1. Name two of my closest friends.

 
#2. What was I wearing when we first met?

 
#3. Where was I born? 

 
#4. When is my birthday?

 
#5. Who is my favorite relative?

 
#6. What is my fondest unrealized dream?

 
#7. What is my favorite time of day for lovemaking?

 
#8. What was one of my best/worst childhood experiences?

  

#9. What do I like most to do with my time off?

 
#10. What is my favorite movie?

 
#11. What do I fear most?

 
 

#12. Which side of the bed do I prefer?

 
#13. What medical problems do I worry about most?

 
#14. What is my favorite romantic restaurant?

 
#15. Name one of my favorite novels. 

 
#16. Name two of the people I admire most.

 
#17. What is my favorite sex position?

 
#18. What spot on my body is most sensitive?

 
#19. What was my most embarrassing moment?

 
#20. What is my favorite outfit to wear when I want to look sexy? 

 
#21. Do I prefer texts or calls?

 
#22. What is my favorite holiday?

 
#23. What physical quality am I most attracted to in the opposite sex?

#24. When was the first time I had sex?

#25. How many kids do I want to have?

#26. What is the date of our anniversary?

#27. What did I think about you when we first met?

 
#28. When did we have our first kiss?

#29. What is my favorite getaway place?

#30. What is my favorite way to spend an evening?

 

#31 What is the ideal number of calls a couple should exchange in a day?

#32 Would you compromise your happiness for the success of the relationship?

#33 What’s your idea of a romantic vacation?

#34 What’s the single most important thing for a relationship to be successful?

#35 What would you define as cheating?

#36 If I cheated on you, would you ever forgive me? 

#37 Would you ever say sorry to me even if it’s not your fault?

#38 Are you friends with any of your exes?

#39 How should finances be planned between a couple?

#40 Do you think celebrating Valentine’s Day is corny?

#41 What was your first impression about me?

#42 Can you avoid flirting if someone attractive flirts with you when I’m not around?

#43 Do you think romantic gifts have to be memorable or do they have to be useful?

#44 How would you want to spend a special day with each other?

#45 What is the most special memory of us that you hold?

#46 If I told you to jump off a tall cliff and tell you that you’ll land safely because there’s a net you can’t see yet, would you blindly trust me and jump?

#47 Do you have to know all of my friends?

#48 Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden?

#49 Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?

#50 Is it fine for a partner to use the toilet with the door open?

#51 After a break up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back all the gifts?

#52 Which love song best describes our relationship?

#53 Describe your perfect man/woman that you would like to date.

#54 In a relationship, what would make you feel happier, sharing or sacrificing?

#55 Would you lie to make me happy and where would you draw the line?

#56 What are some annoying habits of other couples that irritate you the most?

#57 Who would you prefer as a partner, a good looking person or an extremely clever person?

#58 How do you vent out your frustrations in a relationship?

#59 When was the last time I came in your dreams?

#60 If we went to a store to buy a couch and both of us liked different couches, would you still go with my pick?

#61 Is sex about constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?

#62 How often would you want to go out on a date with me in a month?

#63 What is your biggest sexual turn off?

#64 What do you find sexiest about a person of the opposite sex?

#65 What’s your wildest sexual fantasy that you’d want to try with me?

#66 Would you feel insecure if I spent a lot of time at work?

#67 How many sexual partners have you had in the past?

#68 If you were convinced that I was making a bad decision, what would you do about it?

#69 Do you like babies/how many kids would you like to have someday?

#70 When was the last time you disliked me?

#71 If someone attractive exchanges glances with you at work or out there, would you tell me about it?

#72 What’s the craziest thing you’d be willing to do for me?

#73 What kind of a parent do you think you’d be?

#74 When do you think a person is ready for marriage?

#75 What’s the one thing about me you’d like to change?

#76 In an argument, whose side would you take, me or your mother?

#77 Would you relocate for love?

#78 Would you be open to disclosing all your health issues to me all the time?

#79 If you’re having a bad day, would you want me to leave you alone or spend time with you and cheer you up?

#80 What’s more important, sexual chemistry or spending time together?

These relationship questions may seem tricky to your partner at first, but as long as you answer first and help your partner open up, both of you would be able to learn from each other’s answers and develop a better relationship over time.

TAKE NOTE HOWEVER…

• If the couple really loves each other then they won't care if they aren't compatible.
• Just because a couple doesn't have anything in common doesn't mean that they aren't meant for each other.

Warnings

• Don't tell people that, just because they aren't compatible, they aren't meant for each other. That will make them mad.
• Always remember that you can't always rely on a compatibility test when you are in a true relationship.

And i"ll talk to you again soon,
....... Your Friend

.....LEONHART

BBM PIN: 2AF6026F
TWITTER: @chrisxleonhart
FACEBOOK: Chrisking Leonhart
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20 Sexy Questions To Ask a Guy and Seduce Him

Do you like talking naughty with a guy? Here are 20 sexy questions to ask a guy that’ll turn him on instantly and get him talking dirty in no time. 

In today's world, you may spend more time texting your crush than actually hanging out with him. This means that you should not only be able to flirt with your crush in person, but through your texts. If you want to flirt through texting, you have to know how to be playful, witty, and charming in just a sentence or two.

Speaking face to face is easy.

But it’s not easy if you’re trying to talk naughty with a guy for the first time.

Talking dirty face to face can be awkward, or one of you may have a hard time holding that burst of laughter inside.

If you want to know how to be seductive over text then you first have to know that there is an art to it. Although you want to flirt and tease you also don’t want to appear too easy to get.
Being seductive with a guy when you are texting, instant messaging or through email, can be fun if you know the right way to do it.
Like everything else in the world of attraction, there are right and wrong ways to do things. Keep reading for a list of great tips that can help you be seductive when you are texting a guy.

1. One of the most important things you have to remember is to make it not appear obvious that you are the one that is doing all the flirting as you don’t want him to take you for granted or think that you are easy to get.
2. Always make it seem like he is the one that is seducing you and you will see just how much fun the texting can be. This is key to the process.
3. When you text him let him know that you have remembered something he did or said, as this is a big compliment to a guy and he will feel warmer towards you and will be thinking about you. You could say something like “I just remembered that thing that you did or said and how sexy it was” or something along those lines.
4. A great way to kick start his attraction in a neutral, non-direct manner: ask him what his favorite part of a girl’s body is.
5. Always use his name when you text him as it makes it much more intimate. Try and give him a nice cheeky pet name and then use that as well, as it will bond you with each other.
6. Try to arouse him in a discreet way. Don’t do it directly as you must let him think that he is doing some the work. You could say that you are “trying on some new underwear” or that you “just come out of the shower” and let his mind wander a little. This is one of the best ways to arouse a guy because it is making him think of you in a sexy way.
7. Keep things short and don’t try to explain yourself all the time. Keep a bit of mystery as guys love this even if they don’t know why.
8. Don’t flirt when you are texting in an obvious way as then he will think that you do this with all the guys. Your ultimate goal here is to make HIM think dirty, not you. If you can do this then it will make him want to seduce you as he will think that he is chasing you and not the other way around.
9. Try to be sweet as well as seductive when you text him. Guys love compliments just as much as girls. That way he will try harder to please you.
10. Once you are ready to escalate your seduction efforts, you can ask him “If I were with you right now what would we be doing?” then let him take the lead.
11. Try not to be clingy. If he doesn’t respond to your sexy text quickly just leave it be. If a guy doesn’t respond it could be that he is busy doing something or just not interested enough. If he really likes you then he will text you back quite quickly, or will give you a sincere reason for not texting back.
12. Don’t let the conversation go on too long otherwise you risk getting him bored. Either end the texting before he does or change the subject. You have to keep things interesting or he will get bored.

If you want to know how to be seductive, then use your imagination on what to say to the guy that you are texting. As long as you don’t come across as too forward, then being a little seductive can make him get hot under the collar. It will make him focus his mind on you and no one else and make him want to see you as quickly as he can.
Seductive texting is an art, but if done properly it can make a man putty in your hands. The only problem is, once you do have him all hot under the collar because of your seductive texting, then you may have to be prepared to see things through (to go all the way). So only text him seductively if you really want to get your man to take you out, or into bed.

Sexy questions to ask a guy

If you’d want to, you can ask these questions in person.

But I’d suggest you do it via a text.

Text these questions one after the other in the order I’ve mentioned and there’s a huge chance that both of you would be making out with each other within an hour or so.

Are you ready to put these sexy questions that’ll get him in your bed to the test?

The right questions to ask the guy you like

There are many kinds of sexy questions you can ask a guy.

But if you want to turn him on in no time, you have to remember to start off by warming him up and eventually getting more personal and intimate with each passing question.

Ask questions to which you already know the answers to. But hear it from him.

Don’t make it seem like you’re the only one asking all the dirty questions. By using these questions, you’ll make his answers get more and more naughty with each passing question, so it’ll always seem like he’s the one making all the moves.

Be subtle in your questions, at least at the beginning and get dirtier with each question you ask. And always remember this, avoid asking him questions that make him focus on anything other than you once you’re halfway past the 20 questions.

Text him when you know he’s all alone and has no plans for the night. Your focus is to seduce him into sleeping with you without ever appearing like the desperate one.

Trust me, stick to these 20 questions and I assure you, he’ll be in your bedroom before the night is over!

The sexy questions to make him come to you

Start off by texting something normal and try to figure out if he’s available to text you for an hour or so without any interruptions. These questions are open ended questions and he’ll ask you for your answers all the time too. Play coy, but let him know you’re enjoying the texts when you respond to him. And you’ll be able to work your magic and seduce him in an hour’s time with these texts!

#1 Do you like talking naughty?

 (this one sparks up interest...most guys love girls who can be naughty without sounding whore-ish)

#2 Do you check me out when I walk away?

(Hmm...considering #1, he's already set on naughty mode so his answer is gonna be something u'll love when u hear it)

#3 Do you think you’re a good kisser? 

( Hahaha.... he'll give his left nut to hear you say he is)

#4 Has anyone ever accidentally seen you naked?

(Wow...test and see for yourself)

#5 Have you ever skinny dipped?

(Swim naked...)

#6 What are you wearing right now?

(Just my boxers baby...oh...sorry i forgot..i sleep NAKED..)

#7 What’s the sexiest outfit a girl should wear to turn you on?

(My bro ICE is a sucker for short skirts/gowns....even if the girl has the face of an oglop)

#8 What kind of outfit would look best on me?

(ummm.... None. Birthday suit up if u ask Chris...*grins

Here, you're working his imagination chamber to overheat)

#9 Would you help me pick that outfit if I asked you to?

(works in 3 ways ...u get a free dress...u get him to bring it over...u get some ass time)

 

#10 What’s your favorite part of a girl’s body?

(ummm....is this supposed to be a question?...the "#$*&" of course)

 

#11 Which part of a girl’s body do you think tattoos look best?

( Personally above the waistline... a friend of mine says She believes classy girls dont need tatoos, No one intentionally scratches a "BENTLY" or "ROLLSROYCE". So if you have a "permanent" tatoo on ur body, ur a "MOLUE" or "KEKE").

 

#12 What do you wear when you go to bed?

( The point here is he gets to ask you back and you get the chance to seduce the fuck outta him with your answer...and making him feel sexy by giving him the impression you're thinking of him in naughty ways)

 

#13 How do you like a good massage from a girl?

( You're simply trying to wound this dude )

 

#14 What’s your idea of good foreplay?

(by making him talk naughty, you're turning him on)

 

#15 What’s your favorite sexual fantasy?

(Here you get to know what turns your man on....and use it as an advantage to strike deeper cuts...

 Mine is simple ...My '1' in your '0'...methods can be invented subsequently....lol)

  

#16 Do you think we’d do something funny if we get drunk together?

( Still feeding him the thoughts and letting him lead the advance)

#17 Have you ever sexted your picture?

(Sexting implies sending sexually explicit messages or photos basically from a mobile phone....)

#18 Have you ever felt horny while texting on the phone?

(oh yes....right now he is ...)

#19 If I was with you right now, what would you do to me?

(We all know the honest answer to that one.... its not like a guy has any hindrance like "Menses'...or do they?)

#20 How long will it take for you to get here? 

( with that...the hook is cast....if he's within your proximity he will surely come storming through with his erection confidently probing his pants)

Don’t think these 20 questions to ask a guy can get the guy you like into bed with you before the end of the text conversation?

Try it, you’ll be surprised. Just remember to avoid trying to sound funny, focus on feeling sexy and let him know that you’re horny!

Can you think of any other questions to ask a guy that can work its magic into seducing a guy and getting him in your bed in no time? Add your thoughts, it’ll definitely help a reader get a guy she wants in her bed!

And i"ll talk to you again soon,
....... Your Friend

.....LEONHART

BBM PIN: 2AF6026F
TWITTER: @chrisxleonhart
FACEBOOK: Chrisking Leonhart
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