Showing posts with label first dates. Show all posts
Showing posts with label first dates. Show all posts

Sunday, March 5, 2017

GIRLS AND THE SECRET OF THE CUBE




Lions an Lionesses, that's how i ventured into cold reading oh..
Psychology or Kokology ... Palm reading is one type but this you
just have to try.....

The secret of the cube is a psychological game, its very tricky to
learn and execute but this is one mind game that most attentive and
level headed girls enjoy. I would suggest you wait until the first date
or till shes totally cool with you physically or via chats to do it,
because it takes a while to complete and you need an environment
where there are few distractions.

You can start by asking, "Hey let's play a game. I'm going to ask
you a few questions and your answers will tell me all I need to
know about you." Tell her to relax before you begin, then start. As
you read the routine, pretend I'm doing it on you so you can try to
analyze your answers afterwards.

"Imagine yourself in the middle of the desert. It's a really big
desert and you are the only person there." She may close her eyes
to better imagine this scene. "Now in the middle of this desert,
there is a cube. Describe this cube to me, however you imagine it
to be."

Ask about its size, its relation to the desert (on the floor,
floating in the air, etc.), and what material it's made out of.
Urge her to be as detailed as possible, and only continue when she
is completely done answering.

"In addition to the cube, there is a ladder. Where is this ladder
in relation to the cube?" Ask what material it is made out of and
how many rungs/steps it has.

"Next up is a horse. Where is the horse in relation to the cube and
the ladder?" Ask her about the size, type, and color of the horse.

"Now imagine flowers. Where are they in relation to the cube,
ladder, and horse?" Ask her about the quantity, color, and type of
flowers. Always give her time to provide rich details to get her
imagination going.

"Finally, there is a storm in the horizon. Is the storm coming
closer to you, going away, or staying still?" Then tell her that
the game is finished and that her answers are very interesting.
Feel free to hype up the upcoming analysis by saying you learned
something about her that you didn't expect.

When it comes to the analysis, all you have to know is that the
cube is a representation of her, the ladder is her friends and
family, the horse is her lover, the flowers are her future
children, and the storm is a big problem. With a general idea of
what each one means, and your understanding of the girl, you will
make up an analysis that is both believable and accurate.

INTERPRETATION:

CUBE:
The cube represents the player's image of herself.
A cube that is small in the perspective of the scene suggests that
the player thinks of herself as insignificant or modest while
a larger cube suggests the opposite. A cube on the ground indicates
the player is "down to earth," while a floating cube may indicate a dreamer.
The material of the cube is also of interest.
Generally, a large cube means her ego is large. A small cube means
insecurity, but keep the analysis positive in this case by saying
she is timid or not in possession of a large ego. The material of
the cube displays strength. If her cube material is strong and
solid instead of hollow, this means she is a strong person capable
of handling problems without collapsing, and so on. A soft cube means
she is hesitant and needs a lot of assurances before starting a new
task.

LADDER
The ladder is her support circle. The closer her ladder is to the
cube, the more she relies on her friends and family. If the ladder
leans on her cube, she relies on them as much as they do. If the
ladder is on top of her cube, her circle may be smothering her. If
it's far away, she doesn't rely on them much. Rungs on a ladder say
how many people are close to her life. A strong ladder material
says she can count on her family and friends more than if it was
made with weaker material.

HORSE:
The horse represents the player's lover. As with the previous objects,
the closer to the cube the horse is, the more important or intimate
(or possessive!) the love life of the player is. The horse can also
represent anything you are passionate about, and not just a person
The horse size says whether she wants a dominant or subordinate
male. A large horse means she wants to be led. A pretty horse like
a pony means she wants a metrosexual man. A small horse means she
wants to dominate her partner. The distance between the horse and
the cube and ladder says how close her lover will be to her life. A
horse in a cage (or otherwise immobilized) means she wants to
destroy you.

FLOWERS:
The flowers represent the player's children or future children;
it can also represent creative projects or clients like something
the player creates and/or takes care of. Flowers close to the cube
suggest a close relationship with children (or creations or clients),
while a beaten-down flower would suggest a bad or broken relationship with them.
The number of flowers says how many children she wants to have. The
closer they are to her lover (the horse) means the father will be
close to the children. I'm not sure what flower type is but you can
make it up to mean what type of gender she prefers or what she
wants her kids to be when they grow up.

STORM:
Finally,
the storm's movement signifies if a problem is coming or going
towards her and if she has to soon deal with something important or not.
The storm represents the player's current problems and
her attitude toward them. A storm covering the entire scene
would suggest that the player feels overwhelmed by current problems,
while a storm in the distance or a small storm would suggest
no major, unmanageable problems in the present, and possibly
an optimistic attitude toward the future. A static storm means a problem
that will be staying with you for longer than usual or forever.

SAMPLE.....
Let's do a sample analysis with answers that will be pretty
typical.

Say her cube is about four feet tall, made out of solid wood, and
slightly elevated off the ground. Her ladder is laying on top of
the cube, with ten rungs/steps and made out of metal. There is a large,
black horse that is making circles around the cube and ladder and
there are three yellow dandelions very close by. Finally, she
envisions a storm that is neither coming nor going.

For example if I knew that she is an artsy, independent type, here
is the analysis I would give:

"The cube is a representation of you. Your cube is large, which
means you have a healthy ego and a high sense of self-worth. You
like to keep your head up. The cube is elevated off the ground so
that tells me you're a dreamer. You think a lot and tend to lean
towards the creative side of things instead of the analytical. Wood
is a strong material, meaning you see yourself as strong as well.
It cannot be easily broken. For instance the cube could be hollow
but it's not.

"The fact that your ladder is on top of you means that others rely
on you for support and advice more than you rely on them. So
sometimes you feel smothered. Each step/rung represents a person
who you are close to, so you have a lot of people that place their
trust in you. The ladder is made out of metal, a strong material,
which says your support network is strong and dependable.

"The horse is your lover. Its large size means you want to be led,
and maybe even dominated. But the horse is not too close to the
cube and ladder, so this means you want space from your lover as
well.

"The three flowers means you want a small family. Yellow (as for the
dandelions) is a neutral color so you imagine at least one boy and
one girl. They are close to the cube and ladder which is good
because children should be close to you and your friends and family.
It's hard to tell from your answers where you lover fits in.

"Finally, the storm represents a problem. It's neither going nor
coming, which means that there may be an issue you have that is
staying with you indefinitely."

Because the cube game is involved, it is best you practice it on at
least five other people before you do it on a date. If you get lost
in your analysis, just shovel back what you already know about her
without being too obvious about it.

For instance if the guy friend you are doing it on for practice is
an alpha male type, tell him his cube says he feels confident with
his decision making and likes to lead. If your date is a really
insecure girl, tell her that she is sometimes filled with doubt and
goes through periods of uncertainty.

I've never had a girl who didn't eat up my cube analysis and it's
not because I was necessarily right, but because girls love playing
games that supposedly reveal their true nature. (By the time you do
the cube on her, she has done a hundred of those multiple-choice
personality quizzes.) Even if you are wrong, she will love telling
you how and why, so in the process you really do learn more about
her. If you have a girl get bored or flunk out before you're done,
then revert to my earlier statement about a girl needing to be attentive
and level headed for this to work. If my dear friend you're unlucky
to meet or have that type..what you do with her is "all yo' bidness"

After you're done giving her analysis, feel free to tell her what
your answers to the cube were when your friend (i.e. me) did it on
you. I guarantee you she'll be curious to hear it.

The cube game takes a lot of practice and homework but it's worth
it because it gives you experience with cold reading, a method of
spitting vague generalities that on the surface seem very personal
and accurate. Generally, the more complicated a routine, the bigger
payoff it has if you execute it correctly.

Before I knew how attraction really worked, I'd approach a girl and
talk about boring topics such as work or her favorite movies, and
then she would politely excuse herself from the conversation only a
couple minutes into it. But now I know better. When you talk about
more interesting topics, she sees you as more INTERESTING. Duh,
right? With a couple additional techniques, the "interesting" is
turned into strong attraction.

Once attraction is built you can get her number and take her on a
date later, or go for the one night stand (my preferred method).

For more indepth or extensive reading into the cube games secrets..
visit
https://www.scribd.com/doc/353009/The-secret-of-the-cube

                                             And i'll talk to you again soon,

                                                   Your Friend...

                                                                     ..Leonhart

Photos: google images
sources: psychology wiki, rooshv

Sunday, February 26, 2017

OPPORTUNITIES - WHEN DO YOU APPROACH WOMEN?


Missing out on an opportunity could be very annoying. 
If a girl gives me the green-light and i don't respond to it. Should i feel bad? 
Should i feel bad for not talking to every single attractive female i see? 

For instance. 

1. She's at the other side of the pedestrian walkway and she makes eye contact with

you, maybe even smiles at you. Should you go over and talk to her? 

2.You're in a bus or cab and she's looking around and at you instead of her novel. Even probably stares at the video playing on your phone. 

Should you strike? 

3. Okay, if you're at a cafe' or bar and she's there just sighing and staring into nothingness. 


Is it safe to interrupt her thoughts? 

4. She's with a couple of friends & they're looking your way while she's giggling & playing with her hair..

would her friends let you get away with picking her?


         There is no stipulated time and place neither are there strict instructions as to when you should approach and when you shouldn't, but there are opportunities which you should get mad at yourself if you miss out. 

For instance, she's gazing "at you" directly for more than five seconds, i think it's no coincidence that shes fixated and you need to approach her no matter where and find out whats missing in her puzzle...might just be you. 

It also counts to approach girls who are looking around or seem
bored, even if they are not looking directly at you. They want to be distracted
with a conversation or some attention. Who knows you might just be saving 
someone from a suicidal thought. Lol. I see myself as a servant of humanity *winks 
 

Thus, It's a YES to the four scenarios above. You should approach.
But how about the girls who are not giving any eye contact and seem completely
focused in whatever it is they're doing? 
Well, I know what happens when I approach these girls, but do you?
It's true these are not high-success approaches, but I think you owe it to
yourself to try them out a few times and see what you can learn.

The experience I got from approaching so many girls has helped me
be able to tell when a girl is open to being talked to or not.

You just have to keep in mind that her approach-ability is only one factor in deciding if you should approach. There are other factors i cannot state for the purpose of this topic. However, If there is a girl that is in my target or sights especially attractive and close to my ideal type, I'm going to approach her and speak to her whether or not she knows i exist. 


No one is perfect, there will always be times when there is a
girl you should have approached but you didn't.  Could be you were 
not feeling properly dressed or maybe it could be you're in a bad 
mood, or maybe you still worry about people around you witnessing 
your failure or your greenness in the game of meeting women. 

The result is that the girl is gone, probably forever, and
you learned nothing about how things might have been . 
You may feel guilty in the process. At this point all you can do
 is replay the event in your head and imagine what you could
have done differently. 

How would you have started the talk? How would the first minute of the
conversation have been like? How would you graduate to asking for her 
contacts and getting her to accept to go out on a date with you. 
How would you get from the date to the bedroom. 

If and when you find yourself in a similar situation again, you
simply have to repeat your rehearsals for real life. Just
do what you've already rehearsed. One reason I'm good at
approaching is because my mind has done it thousands of times, even
when I wasn't actually doing it. 
  
The feeling of regret is good because it will ginger you to
action. That's how I got into the game, when I had a lot of
bottled-up shame for not being able to get women regularly. 
I read books on human psychology & other self help books from 
some masters in the game. It's not just by reading those 
books, i did the approaches, and learned from alpha males in the
field who already had their way and skill about it . I kept going
for years until I could cross out girls from my list of
problems in life.

Don't be this guy. 
 
And I'll talk to you again soon 

      Your Friend. 

........Leonhart

Monday, September 15, 2014

THE TEASING GAME (SECRET:1 step forward, 2 steps back)


Hello Lion's and Lionesses. been battling with inspiration and time due to the recent loss i suffered but i have to leave you guys with this top secret I've known and used for years to get women to practically throw themselves at me. 

The secret Method of Taking a step forward and two steps backwards. You still don't get it ya? Lemme explain... Years ago a friend told me that if you slap someone with your bare

hand, you will feel as much pain as the person you slapped. And

it's true because the nerve receptors in your hand cannot tell the

difference if it's doing the slapping or if it's being slapped.

(This is probably why my mom preferred to beat me with a broom.)

Let me explain how this concept applies to the game.



I was at a gig with a girl I had been on one date with. We hadn't

had sex yet but I definitely wanted to. When I look back in my

dating history at the girls that really got me going, I noticed they

were all very good at teasing me. 


These girls knew how to restrain themselves and postpone some

pleasure now for more pleasure later. I understood this concept and

was beginning to use it on girls, but I would often give in early

because I was impatient and horny.



I didn't fully understand that the anticipation of intimacy is more

arousing than intimacy itself. Therefore anticipation of a kiss is

more arousing than the kiss itself. You can suck face with someone

for one hour, but after sometime you will get less from that kiss until your lips go numb and you don't feel like kissing anymore. In fact the best way to make a girl horny is to kiss her LESS and build

sexual tension that begs to be relieved in the bedroom.



My date and I already kissed before so there wasn't going to be any

major surprise , but what I would do is get very close to her lips and barely brush against them with mine without kissing her, and then pull back. Her head would follow me back, until she realized I wasn't going to kiss her. She would smile and I would smile, and we'd take a sip of our drink and i would watch her dance a little more.



That night I did the pull-back game for almost TWO HOURS without kissing her once, until I was ready to explode (remember that when you tease someone, you tease yourself by the same amount). But she had no idea that I was going through a harder time than she was because I did my best to put on a relaxed facade.


Let me sidetrack real quick and mention that this idea works with

emotions too. It's impossible not to feel the emotions you try to

make others feel. If you want a girl to fall in love with you, and

you seduce her successfully, you will also fall in love with her to a certain degree. Knowing this is incredible because it says that you can feel whatever emotion you try to create in others. 



For example if I want to feel passion, I just have to make someone

else feel it. If I want to feel love, I just have to make someone

else feel love. Unfortunately many people unknowingly use this for

negative emotions such as jealousy, fear, and anger.


Back to the story. I drove my date home and in my bedroom she gave me absolutely no resistance. She let me do whatever I wanted to do and for that night her body was mine in any way I desired.


After that incredible night, does it mean I can stop teasing her?

Of course not! No matter how far along the relationship we are,

both of us have to keep the sexual tension tight to keep the good

feelings going. The moment either of us stops putting in work to

induce maximal pleasure is the moment the relationship will become stale. Because anyone can just keep making out. But not many cannot.



The only way I learned how to tease a girl was by taking notes on

all the girls I was hooking up with. If what they did felt really good to me, I figured it would feel good to a girl as well. Most of what I learned about how to please women and satisfy them actually comes from girls.



Before you can get to the point where you are teasing and kissing a

girl, you need to know how to build attraction. I used to live in

my own personal hell because there would be a girl I liked but I

had no idea how to build attraction, no idea how to kiss her, and

no idea how to get her in bed. I had the desire, but I didn't have

the knowledge because my toolbox was completely empty. It took me years to learn that knowledge, and am more than happhy to share it with you my friends.. so stay tuned and always keep your game tight.
 Your friend, 

...Leonhart

@chrisxleonhart

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

SUCCESSFUL FIRST DATES- BANG SERIES

                                      READER DISCRETION: MEN ONLY + OPINIONATED TOPIC.
Friends and partners in crime *winks
Took a long break but now i am back and refreshed...
Guys always ask on how not to screw up a first date.... well.
Here are a few pointers. And thanks to Roosh, they may not all work for you. But like i said... they are pointers. If you're a reader of THE LION'S DEN I'd expect you've at least left the "wuss zone". So understanding this shouldn't be a task and putting them to good use would just be your pleasure.

Besides the actual act of sex, first dates are the most enjoyable
part of the game. It's where two people who barely know each other
are alone and isolated with a cloud of sexual tension lingering in
the air. Here's a few tips to turn that sexual tension into a
bang...
1. PICK THE RIGHT DAY.


 Don't try to have a first date on a weekend,
especially if you haven't kissed her yet. Weekend dates send the
wrong message that you value her too much and are ready to give a
"primetime" night to someone you just met. Instead stick to Monday
through Thursday for the first date. My favorite day for first
dates are Wednesdays, because what girl is busy on a Wednesday
night?
2. PICK THE RIGHT VENUE.
 Sure you can have great conversation by
taking girls out to dinner and ice cream dates, but if your goal is
to bang as fast as possible, you MUST do a drinks date. A great
time to schedule it is 9pm as that will cue her to eat beforehand,
saving you money.
Even if your drinks date is short of a blockbuster, it's very hard
not to get at least a make out if she's had three or more drinks in
her. In fact one way to know that she doesn't like you is if she
refuses to have more than one drink.
3.PREPARE! 
There is no way you can memorize enough routines for a
date that lasts two hours or more, and even if you could it would
be a stupid waste of energy. You're going to have to be REAL and
this is where I hope your vibe is fun and interesting. If not then
dates will be a challenge
I prepare for dates by having several fun routines ready, usually The Concentration Game (ask each other popular questions that have several answers, first who fails to answer or forgets or repeats an answer gets to drink a shot of vodka) This is fun and makes them drink....letting their guard down. however only really fun girls would try this on a first date. Other routines exist too. I also remind myself of touching moves and body language that prime her for the kiss.
Quick Tip (potheads will interpret this differently) : On your way to dates call up a couple friends and shoot the shit with them for a while. Since first dates are mostly a talking affair, you want that part of your brain to be ready. The worst thing you can do is lounge around at home all day in front of  your computer/phone and then go out on a date without having done any talking beforehand.
4. CHILL THE FUCK OUT.
It's natural to be nervous, especially with
the pressure of getting laid hanging over your head. But I
guarantee you she is more nervous than you are, simply because
she's a girl and is programmed to stress about everything. I can't
be the only person who knows girls who can't even go to a public
bathroom without a friend. 
The more you have your internal game straightened out and believe a girl should prove her value to you, the less you will be nervous
yourself. Think of her on a stage, twirling and spinning for your
pleasure. Whether this is reality or not doesn't matter... just
believe it.
5. SHOW UP LATE.
I'm always AT LEAST five minutes late, though I
try to hit ten minutes. You want to stir up some anxiety and fear
that she's being stood up so that she thinks about her insecurities
("Am I not pretty enough?") instead of yours. 
Even if you arrive early, mill around in the parking lot or
wherever for a while until you're late. The upper limit of lateness
to where the girl gets seriously pissed off is around fifteen
minutes, so try to keep it under that.
6. FOCUS ON ESCALATION.
  The best way to do this is by touching her
more and more as the date progresses. First you start with innocent
touches on her forearm or shoulder, then you graduate to touching
her hands after the half-hour mark, then you wrap your arm around
her waist. Next thing you know your heads are mere inches apart and the kiss is a foregone conclusion.
I believe that kissing results more because of touching than
because of interesting conversation. Think of it this way:
conversation makes her feel comfortable with you touching her, and....
touching makes her feel comfortable with you kissing her. Sometimes
you can kiss a girl with touching alone.
7. ALWAYS GO FOR THE BANG.
  Even if you don't think you will get the
bang on the same night, it's still prudent to go for it. The reason
is because it makes your job much easier for the second date. The farther you get on the first date, the less work you have to do on the second. 
Even if the first date goes well, you can't make the assumption
there will be a second. How about if her long lost ex-boyfriend
calls the next day? How about if her friends cock-block you? Then
you'll kick yourself in the ass that you didn't push it. Always go
for the bang and I'm confident you'll be surprised at how far you
get.
As you've probably noticed, most of the work in having a great
first date is done before you even show up. A little preparation
for them goes a long way, especially if you consider that it takes
quite a bit of work to meet a new girl and then get her out. Don't
blow it by not preparing yourself.
I learned these date tips by going on A LOT of dates. I'm sure I've
been on at least 100 first dates, in parks, bars, clubs,
bookstores, coffee shops, museums, malls, ice cream parlors,
pastries, and my bed-room, to name a few. 
I've tried it all, and through my experiences have figured out some
seemingly "obvious" things like how a common neighborhood bar is the best place to have a date as long as you can sit close to her.
There's the big things in-game like having the optimal attitude or
the best opening line, but the small things count too because they
quickly add up and make getting laid a lot easier. 
As always, i leave you with a funny picture to study and ponder upon.

Always your Manchi!
LEONHART...