“How To Use
‘Sexual’ Body Language
To Make Women Notice And Feel
ATTRACTION For You…”
Have you ever thought that if you just
knew the right “words” to say to a woman, that
you
would have no problem “picking her up”?
If
so, you’re not alone. In fact, this is exactly what I used to think.
I
used to think that if I could just learn the right “lines” and “techniques”,
everything
else
would just fall into place.
I
have another question for you…
Have
you ever approached a woman with what you thought was a good “line”… or with
something
“polite”… and had her totally blow you off?
Well,
this may come as a surprise, but there’s a very good chance that she made the
decision
to reject you BEFORE YOU EVEN OPENED YOUR MOUTH.
Huh?
Think
about it…
Attractive
women get hit on by men day in and day out. It NEVER stops.
They
are practically forced to develop ways to size men up FAST.
And
body language just happens to be the easiest and the MOST ACCURATE way for
them
to disqualify guys who don’t “get it” without ever even having to talk to
them.
That
said... developing powerful, masculine body language is one of the most
important
things
you’ll ever do to improve your game.
If
you want to make a woman feel comfortable and open to talking to you, you must
learn
to physically communicate to her that you are the type of man she is
looking for
BEFORE
you meet her.
And
if you want to make a woman feel powerful sexual attraction for you, you must
learn
to project the physical signals that women can’t help but respond to you.
Because
this information is so important, I wanted to create a special report for you
to
go
along with this issue of my monthly interview series, just to be absolutely
sure that you
get
every ounce of information out of it.
So
here’s exactly what you need to do to transform your communication and start
speaking
to women in a way that most men will NEVER figure out…
1. “Un-Train” Yourself And Eliminate All Of The Things
That You’re Doing
Wrong…
If
you really want to become a master of sexual body language, it’s not enough to
simply
learn the “right moves”. You also need to eliminate what you’re doing wrong.
Remember,
women are at least TEN TIMES better at reading and interpreting subtle
communication
than men.
Even
if you’re doing a lot of things right, one small “tick” will give her that
feeling that
“something
isn’t right”. You need to be absolutely sure that everything you do “fits”.
So
how do you do that?
2. Become Constantly Aware Of What Your Body Is Doing
Good
body language isn’t something you just “turn on” when you are talking to a
woman.
It’s
important that you internalize it and make it a part of you.
When
you’re first learning this stuff, you need to be paying attention to your body
language
ALL THE TIME.
Start
paying attention to EVERYTHING… where you place your hands when you are
sitting,
the way your feet are facing when you’re standing, the speed and precision of
your
movements,
the way you walk, the way you blink, and even the way you breathe.
Simply
opening your eyes to what your body is doing will give you some great insights
on
improving it.
.
3. Align Yourself For Success
The
most important thing that great non-verbal communicators do to project
masculine
confidence and power is something most do unconsciously.
The
good news is that you can easily learn it and duplicate their success.
The
key is to ALIGN YOURSELF so that every part of your body is completely
congruent
with one another.
When
standing, keep your feet a little bit more than shoulder-width apart. Make sure
to
balance your weight firmly across the entire length of your feet.
Now,
put your shoulders back and lift your chest up towards the sky.
Put
your chin up, and with each hand, touch your thumb to your forefinger to align
the
muscles
in your arms.
Doing
this forces you into “centered” position, and causes positive sexual energy to
flow
throughout your body.
And
believe me… women will take notice.
You
can use this same technique of aligning yourself when you are sitting down,
leaning
up against a wall, or walking down the street.
Ok,
homework time…
Go
out and grab the movie “Swingers”, and pay close attention to the character
played
by
Vince Vaughan.
Watch
how he stands, how he sits, and how he moves.
Notice
how every detail of his body language is completely congruent.
Now,
as you walk around town today, PRETEND YOU ARE HIM. (I know this sounds
silly…
but trust me).
Also
try studying the character of JAMES BOND, especially pierce BROSNAN and the
way he moves (body language) and sounds
....very masculine (My name is Bond,...James Bond)
Focus on keeping yourself centered and
aligned.
Watch
the reactions you get from women and everyone else. I think you’ll be surprised
at
just how much of a difference this stuff makes.
.
4. Lead From Your Hips
a
simple secret that was a HUGE “ah ha” for me
This
secret is something that will instantly improve your body language, and cause
women
to notice you wherever you go.
The
best part about it is that it’s incredibly easy to learn and use.
The
secret is to “lead from your hips” when you are walking.
Most
men move forward with their chest or their head leading the way. When you lead
from
your hips, it subtly communicates a sexual awareness that women are
BIOLOGICALLY
PROGRAMMED
to notice.
Simply
put, doing just this one thing will have a massive effect on the way women look
at
you… even if you change nothing else in your game.
Just
pretend as if there is a giant string tied to your belt that is gently pulling
you along
as
you are walking.
It
really is that easy. The tricky part is simply REMEMBERING to do it until you
internalize
it and it becomes second nature.
So
you can tie a string around your finger, or write a note to yourself backwards
on your
forehead
so you can read it when you look in the mirror.....lol
It’s
THAT important.
.
5. Lift Your Chest
I
also talked about ANOTHER “goldmine” move that is easy to learn
and
will improve your body language INSTANTLY.
A
while ago I was fortunate to have a gentleman write in to me that happened to
coach
professional
musicians and singers.
He
shared with me a secret used by professional singers to powerfully amplify
their
voices
to completely fill up a room.
As
it turns out, you can use this secret to massively and INSTANTLY improve your
body
language.
I
really wish I would have thought of this one…
That
secret is to “lift” your chest.
When
you lift your chest towards the sky, it practically forces you to align your
body
into
a powerfully masculine position.
You
can do this whether you’re sitting, standing, or walking.
In
fact, this really is an instant cure that you can use anytime you aren’t sure
of how to
position
yourself.
Since
this gentleman first shared this technique with me, I’ve personally
incorporated
it
into everything I do, and it’s a proven winner.
I
can tell you from experience that when you are learning how to be successful
with
women,
there are very few “quick fixes”. In 99% of cases, simply learning a great
“pick up
line”
or technique will get you nowhere.
Well,
this is one of those VERY RARE exceptions. Use it!
6. Make Her Earn It
When
most guys are around women, they make the big mistake of physically “leaning
in”.
This subtly communicates to a woman that you want her… and that SHE---not
YOU---is
in
charge.
Not
good.
It’s
FAR more effective to lean back a bit and make her come to you. This
accomplishes
three
VERY important things:
1.
It makes her feel comfortable with talking to you because you are not crowding
into
her personal space.
2.
It completely separates you from every other guy she’s met, and let’s her know
RIGHT
AWAY that there is something different about you.
3.
It creates a HUGE challenge by subtly forcing HER to come to YOU… and sets
up
the frame that YOU are the selector and SHE is the pursuer right from the
start.
The
same holds true in how you orient the way you are facing when talking to a
woman.
If
you immediately turn to face her while she is facing even slightly away, then
YOU are
framed
as the pursuer.
On
the other hand, if you approach her WITHOUT facing her directly, and let her be
the
one to position her body towards you, it says all the right things, and starts
the
interaction
off right.
These
two things are the secrets every “natural” uses to have woman chasing him from
the
start. Start paying very close attention to this stuff when you’re interacting
with women.
It
will be second nature for you before you know it.
7. Show Her That You Are Sexually Aware
If
you can master the subtle ways to show a woman that you are sexually aware and
experienced
WITHOUT saying anything, women will become turned on simply by being
around
you.
One
of the biggest indicators women use to size up a man’s sexual experience is the
way
he touches HIMSELF.
Here
are a few things you can do to let a woman know that you know exactly what
you’re
doing:
1.
Every once in awhile, briefly caress your own chest or neck as you are talking
to
her
2.
If you find yourself talking to a woman and you are both sitting down, rest one
hand
on your inner thigh near (but not touching) your crotch
3.
Look intensely in her eyes, and then look away
4.
Eliminate all “fidgety” movements and nervous “ticks”
Learning
sexual body language might be the simplest thing you can do to improve your
ability
to make women feel attraction for you.
It’s
also one of the most important.
This
is one of few “easy fixes” that will get you huge results.
Like
I mentioned before, the only hard part here is REMEMBERING what to do and
making
a conscious effort to do it.
Make
a commitment to yourself right now that you will take the time and effort it
takes
to
master this skill. Read this over and over again until every word is burned
into
your brain. There is a TON of terrific and HIGHLY IMPORTANT subtle points in
there,
and
when you master all of them, you’ll be amazed at just how powerfully women
respond to
you.
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