Monday, December 10, 2012


     Another piece from our favorite psalmist, Emeka the flaming mind (follow him @FlameEmeka). THE SONG OF PASSION.

      Well well well.... Flame, i don't know how you feel women came about but before i drop your piece lemme tell you a little story.

 i was having this chat with God this morning....and this is more like
a summary of what happened in the garden of Eden...HOW ADAM BOUGHT EVE

Noticing that Adam appeared somewhat sullen, God asked, "What is wrong
with you, Adam?"

Adam said, "I don't have anyone to talk to... to play with... to eat
with... except the animals."

God said that he was going to make Adam a companion and that it would
be a Woman.

God said, "This person will gather food for you, and when you discover
clothing, she'll wash it for you. She will always agree with every
decision you make. She will bear your children and never ask you to
get up in the middle of the night to take care of them. She will not
nag you and will always be the first to admit she was wrong when
you've had a disagreement. She will never have a headache and will
freely give you love and passion when ever you need it."

Adam asked God, "What will a woman like this cost?"

God replied, "An arm and a leg."

Then Adam asked, "What can I get for a rib?" .............And the rest is history.

Now, to the main event...(Emeka's Song) Dedicated to ''Stylish Thelma'' who requested this....

    '' What can man want in a woman, that I've not come to find in thee? A gift to me as given by the Lord.

 I've come to believe and thou art loyal to me as man. Thou cometh with Love and trueness, and the Lord's command regarding thine reputation shalt I protect. 

Thou art full of beauty and aura, thou art mine. So bring it; bring it to me, thy body. Let me keep thee warm, let me feel thine breasts against mine chest; press them hard upon me until nipples almost pierce my chest.

 I shall curl my great arms around thee and stroke thine spine from neck and down to the low. Let me kiss thine forehead, o love of my choices; kissing thy lip as well and resting tongue on thine nips. 

Thy hip is hot and thine butt is firm above thine shanks. I will lay on thee and spark thine warmth, from head to toe; touching thine active spots. I'll take the line from between thine cleavages and rule it down to the end beneath; o setting thee on fire! The feel is warm; almost hot, o woman of goodwill; o woman of my flaming heart,  thine feel in my heart is a burning flame. 

In The sharing of this passion, have I brought smile to thine face and most of thine days with me shalt be full of the joys that I can give.

I'll talk to you again soon,
Your Friend,

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Sunday, December 9, 2012

ANSWERS FOR MEN (add yours)

            Once again i've been away..... a little bit of humour to lighten the mood eh!
Sometimes Women Ask Stupid Questions which in my Opinion should be rhetorical
But HEY! why spoil the fun when we can be as annoying in our answers as they are in their questions 
or even more. 
comment and add yours!

The Man Answer List

 It's a testosterone thing. Much similar to your PMS thing,
we men suffer from testosterone poisoning. Why do you think
the average life span of a male is typically 10 years shorter
(and it's not just from all the bitching and nagging we have
to endure)? Hormones modifies behavior. We're just misunderstood.

 Again, this is a testosterone thing. Do you honestly think
that all the testosterone just fell out of our bodies the moment
we met you? Besides, women do it as well. Women are just much
better at not getting caught. I'm fairly certain it's some sort
of photographic memory deal. Women take one quick look and memorize
it for later reference. Since men lack this ability, we try to
burn it into our memory by staring as much as we can.

 We occasionally need to adjust our little friend and make him
happy. It's much like adjusting your bra. Being in public is
just an added bonus. No offence to you Nedu danzprinz.

 We like to. It's actually a whole lot of fun to see our partner
frustrated by a few simple (and well chosen) words.

 You'd learn to keep your big mouth shut too if every time you
open it you get into trouble with your partner.

 Well, we don't actually have to; we do it because we enjoy it.
It's the old fashioned pride in a job well done that's missing
in so much of the world nowadays. Farting is another fun thing
for men!!

 Do we look like women to you? Why is it so hard to understand
that men and women are different? How are we supposed to share
how we feel when we have no idea how we feel? Unless we're
experiencing some extreme emotion like rage, hatred, disgust,
or a brick on our foot, we have no idea how we feel. Personally,
I get a headache whenever I try to figure out how I feel.
 Please ... How many hours do you think there is in a day? We
oblige you as much as we can, but who the hell (besides women)
can stand lying around for hours on end? (hmmm...Amara)

We men ... Men hunters... Need go roam ... Starve in cave ... Must go find wildebeest
... Now sitting on our asses for hours on end (pressing my lappy) on the other hand
is a whole other story.

 Men have very powerful sets of sitting muscles developed by
evolution that enable us to sit for extended periods of time
without getting tired. In prehistoric times, it was often
necessary to sit in one spot for extended periods of time while
hunting for prey. The more successful hunters were able to sit
very still for very extended periods of time thereby passing
on this ability to their progeny. The fidgety types were all
gobbled up by saber toothed tigers etc. The end result is that
almost all modern men are born with this innate ability.

 Men are taught from a tender young age to be self-sufficient.
To say that we love you is equivalent to saying that we need you.
Most men consider that a character fault. It's not easy to admit
to one's own character faults.

 Ho, Ho, Ho ... Aren't you special? Well, some men think it's
a sure fire way to get into your pants. Surprisingly, it actually
still works quite well.

 We just simply don't have the energy to answer every single
one of your questions. If we think we do not have the answer,
or that you will not like the answer, we simply remain quiet
and save the energy for other things.

 Why should we? It doesn't really bother us that much. Besides,
we know darn well you'll pick it up.

 This usually only occurs after months of courting. It's our way
to let you know that we're comfortable with you. Believe it or
not, it's actually a sign of affection. Besides, holding it for
extended periods of time gives us stomach cramps.

 It's an evolutionary thing. Men hunt. Women gather. We just want
to go out, kill it, and bring it back. Who wants to spend hours
and hours to look at things we have no intention of killing?
Err ... buying?
We just go to Nza Bush House or Brifina and POINT AND KILL!!!! for fun.

Hahahahah!!!! I had madt fun! did you? Then Add yours via comment and i'll 
update it.

Your Friend 

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Monday, December 3, 2012


 “How To Use ‘Sexual’ Body Language
To Make Women Notice And Feel
        Have you ever thought that if you just knew the right “words” to say to a woman, that
you would have no problem “picking her up”?
If so, you’re not alone. In fact, this is exactly what I used to think.
I used to think that if I could just learn the right “lines” and “techniques”, everything
else would just fall into place.
I have another question for you…
Have you ever approached a woman with what you thought was a good “line”… or with
something “polite”… and had her totally blow you off?
Well, this may come as a surprise, but there’s a very good chance that she made the
decision to reject you BEFORE YOU EVEN OPENED YOUR MOUTH.
Think about it…
Attractive women get hit on by men day in and day out. It NEVER stops.
They are practically forced to develop ways to size men up FAST.
And body language just happens to be the easiest and the MOST ACCURATE way for
them to disqualify guys who don’t “get it” without ever even having to talk to them.
That said... developing powerful, masculine body language is one of the most important
things you’ll ever do to improve your game.
If you want to make a woman feel comfortable and open to talking to you, you must
learn to physically communicate to her that you are the type of man she is looking for
BEFORE you meet her.
And if you want to make a woman feel powerful sexual attraction for you, you must
learn to project the physical signals that women can’t help but respond to you.
Because this information is so important, I wanted to create a special report for you to
go along with this issue of my monthly interview series, just to be absolutely sure that you
get every ounce of information out of it.
So here’s exactly what you need to do to transform your communication and start
speaking to women in a way that most men will NEVER figure out…
1. “Un-Train” Yourself And Eliminate All Of The Things That You’re Doing
If you really want to become a master of sexual body language, it’s not enough to
simply learn the “right moves”. You also need to eliminate what you’re doing wrong.
Remember, women are at least TEN TIMES better at reading and interpreting subtle
communication than men.
Even if you’re doing a lot of things right, one small “tick” will give her that feeling that
“something isn’t right”. You need to be absolutely sure that everything you do “fits”.
So how do you do that?
2. Become Constantly Aware Of What Your Body Is Doing
Good body language isn’t something you just “turn on” when you are talking to a
It’s important that you internalize it and make it a part of you.
When you’re first learning this stuff, you need to be paying attention to your body
language ALL THE TIME.
Start paying attention to EVERYTHING… where you place your hands when you are
sitting, the way your feet are facing when you’re standing, the speed and precision of your
movements, the way you walk, the way you blink, and even the way you breathe.
Simply opening your eyes to what your body is doing will give you some great insights
on improving it.
3. Align Yourself For Success
The most important thing that great non-verbal communicators do to project
masculine confidence and power is something most do unconsciously.
The good news is that you can easily learn it and duplicate their success.
The key is to ALIGN YOURSELF so that every part of your body is completely
congruent with one another.
When standing, keep your feet a little bit more than shoulder-width apart. Make sure
to balance your weight firmly across the entire length of your feet.
Now, put your shoulders back and lift your chest up towards the sky.
Put your chin up, and with each hand, touch your thumb to your forefinger to align the
muscles in your arms.
Doing this forces you into “centered” position, and causes positive sexual energy to
flow throughout your body.
And believe me… women will take notice.
You can use this same technique of aligning yourself when you are sitting down,
leaning up against a wall, or walking down the street.
Ok, homework time…
Go out and grab the movie “Swingers”, and pay close attention to the character played
by Vince Vaughan.
Watch how he stands, how he sits, and how he moves.
Notice how every detail of his body language is completely congruent.
Now, as you walk around town today, PRETEND YOU ARE HIM. (I know this sounds
silly… but trust me).
Also try studying the character of JAMES BOND, especially pierce BROSNAN and the
 way he moves (body language) and sounds ....very masculine (My name is Bond,...James Bond)
 Focus on keeping yourself centered and aligned.
Watch the reactions you get from women and everyone else. I think you’ll be surprised
at just how much of a difference this stuff makes.
4. Lead From Your Hips
a simple secret that was a HUGE “ah ha” for me
This secret is something that will instantly improve your body language, and cause
women to notice you wherever you go.
The best part about it is that it’s incredibly easy to learn and use.
The secret is to “lead from your hips” when you are walking.
Most men move forward with their chest or their head leading the way. When you lead
from your hips, it subtly communicates a sexual awareness that women are BIOLOGICALLY
PROGRAMMED to notice.
Simply put, doing just this one thing will have a massive effect on the way women look
at you… even if you change nothing else in your game.
Just pretend as if there is a giant string tied to your belt that is gently pulling you along
as you are walking.
It really is that easy. The tricky part is simply REMEMBERING to do it until you
internalize it and it becomes second nature.
So you can tie a string around your finger, or write a note to yourself backwards on your
forehead so you can read it when you look in the
It’s THAT important.
5. Lift Your Chest
I also talked about ANOTHER “goldmine” move that is easy to learn
and will improve your body language INSTANTLY.
A while ago I was fortunate to have a gentleman write in to me that happened to coach
professional musicians and singers.
He shared with me a secret used by professional singers to powerfully amplify their
voices to completely fill up a room.
As it turns out, you can use this secret to massively and INSTANTLY improve your
body language.
I really wish I would have thought of this one…
That secret is to “lift” your chest.
When you lift your chest towards the sky, it practically forces you to align your body
into a powerfully masculine position.
You can do this whether you’re sitting, standing, or walking.
In fact, this really is an instant cure that you can use anytime you aren’t sure of how to
position yourself.
Since this gentleman first shared this technique with me, I’ve personally incorporated
it into everything I do, and it’s a proven winner.
I can tell you from experience that when you are learning how to be successful with
women, there are very few “quick fixes”. In 99% of cases, simply learning a great “pick up
line” or technique will get you nowhere.
Well, this is one of those VERY RARE exceptions. Use it!
6. Make Her Earn It
When most guys are around women, they make the big mistake of physically “leaning
in”. This subtly communicates to a woman that you want her… and that SHE---not YOU---is
in charge.
Not good.
It’s FAR more effective to lean back a bit and make her come to you. This accomplishes
three VERY important things:
1. It makes her feel comfortable with talking to you because you are not crowding
into her personal space.
2. It completely separates you from every other guy she’s met, and let’s her know
RIGHT AWAY that there is something different about you.
3. It creates a HUGE challenge by subtly forcing HER to come to YOU… and sets
up the frame that YOU are the selector and SHE is the pursuer right from the start.
The same holds true in how you orient the way you are facing when talking to a woman.
If you immediately turn to face her while she is facing even slightly away, then YOU are
framed as the pursuer.
On the other hand, if you approach her WITHOUT facing her directly, and let her be
the one to position her body towards you, it says all the right things, and starts the
interaction off right.
These two things are the secrets every “natural” uses to have woman chasing him from
the start. Start paying very close attention to this stuff when you’re interacting with women.
It will be second nature for you before you know it.
7. Show Her That You Are Sexually Aware
If you can master the subtle ways to show a woman that you are sexually aware and
experienced WITHOUT saying anything, women will become turned on simply by being
around you.
One of the biggest indicators women use to size up a man’s sexual experience is the
way he touches HIMSELF.
Here are a few things you can do to let a woman know that you know exactly what
you’re doing:
1. Every once in awhile, briefly caress your own chest or neck as you are talking to
2. If you find yourself talking to a woman and you are both sitting down, rest one
hand on your inner thigh near (but not touching) your crotch
3. Look intensely in her eyes, and then look away
4. Eliminate all “fidgety” movements and nervous “ticks”
Learning sexual body language might be the simplest thing you can do to improve your
ability to make women feel attraction for you.
It’s also one of the most important.
This is one of few “easy fixes” that will get you huge results.
Like I mentioned before, the only hard part here is REMEMBERING what to do and
making a conscious effort to do it.
Make a commitment to yourself right now that you will take the time and effort it takes
to master this skill. Read this over and over again until every word is burned
into your brain. There is a TON of terrific and HIGHLY IMPORTANT subtle points in there,
and when you master all of them, you’ll be amazed at just how powerfully women respond to
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