SECRET OF SEXUAL BODY LANGUAGE

 “How To Use ‘Sexual’ Body Language

To Make Women Notice And Feel

ATTRACTION For You…”

        Have you ever thought that if you just knew the right “words” to say to a woman, that

you would have no problem “picking her up”?

If so, you’re not alone. In fact, this is exactly what I used to think.

I used to think that if I could just learn the right “lines” and “techniques”, everything

else would just fall into place.

I have another question for you…

Have you ever approached a woman with what you thought was a good “line”… or with

something “polite”… and had her totally blow you off?

Well, this may come as a surprise, but there’s a very good chance that she made the

decision to reject you BEFORE YOU EVEN OPENED YOUR MOUTH.

Huh?

Think about it…

Attractive women get hit on by men day in and day out. It NEVER stops.

They are practically forced to develop ways to size men up FAST.

And body language just happens to be the easiest and the MOST ACCURATE way for

them to disqualify guys who don’t “get it” without ever even having to talk to them.

That said... developing powerful, masculine body language is one of the most important

things you’ll ever do to improve your game.

If you want to make a woman feel comfortable and open to talking to you, you must

learn to physically communicate to her that you are the type of man she is looking for

BEFORE you meet her.

And if you want to make a woman feel powerful sexual attraction for you, you must

learn to project the physical signals that women can’t help but respond to you.

Because this information is so important, I wanted to create a special report for you to

go along with this issue of my monthly interview series, just to be absolutely sure that you

get every ounce of information out of it.

So here’s exactly what you need to do to transform your communication and start

speaking to women in a way that most men will NEVER figure out…

1. “Un-Train” Yourself And Eliminate All Of The Things That You’re Doing

Wrong…

If you really want to become a master of sexual body language, it’s not enough to

simply learn the “right moves”. You also need to eliminate what you’re doing wrong.

Remember, women are at least TEN TIMES better at reading and interpreting subtle

communication than men.

Even if you’re doing a lot of things right, one small “tick” will give her that feeling that

“something isn’t right”. You need to be absolutely sure that everything you do “fits”.

So how do you do that?

2. Become Constantly Aware Of What Your Body Is Doing

Good body language isn’t something you just “turn on” when you are talking to a

woman.

It’s important that you internalize it and make it a part of you.

When you’re first learning this stuff, you need to be paying attention to your body

language ALL THE TIME.

Start paying attention to EVERYTHING… where you place your hands when you are

sitting, the way your feet are facing when you’re standing, the speed and precision of your

movements, the way you walk, the way you blink, and even the way you breathe.

Simply opening your eyes to what your body is doing will give you some great insights

on improving it.

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3. Align Yourself For Success

The most important thing that great non-verbal communicators do to project

masculine confidence and power is something most do unconsciously.

The good news is that you can easily learn it and duplicate their success.

The key is to ALIGN YOURSELF so that every part of your body is completely

congruent with one another.

When standing, keep your feet a little bit more than shoulder-width apart. Make sure

to balance your weight firmly across the entire length of your feet.

Now, put your shoulders back and lift your chest up towards the sky.

Put your chin up, and with each hand, touch your thumb to your forefinger to align the

muscles in your arms.

Doing this forces you into “centered” position, and causes positive sexual energy to

flow throughout your body.

And believe me… women will take notice.

You can use this same technique of aligning yourself when you are sitting down,

leaning up against a wall, or walking down the street.

Ok, homework time…

Go out and grab the movie “Swingers”, and pay close attention to the character played

by Vince Vaughan.

Watch how he stands, how he sits, and how he moves.

Notice how every detail of his body language is completely congruent.

Now, as you walk around town today, PRETEND YOU ARE HIM. (I know this sounds

silly… but trust me).

Also try studying the character of JAMES BOND, especially pierce BROSNAN and the

 way he moves (body language) and sounds ....very masculine (My name is Bond,...James Bond)

 Focus on keeping yourself centered and aligned.

Watch the reactions you get from women and everyone else. I think you’ll be surprised

at just how much of a difference this stuff makes.

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4. Lead From Your Hips

a simple secret that was a HUGE “ah ha” for me

This secret is something that will instantly improve your body language, and cause

women to notice you wherever you go.

The best part about it is that it’s incredibly easy to learn and use.

The secret is to “lead from your hips” when you are walking.

Most men move forward with their chest or their head leading the way. When you lead

from your hips, it subtly communicates a sexual awareness that women are BIOLOGICALLY

PROGRAMMED to notice.

Simply put, doing just this one thing will have a massive effect on the way women look

at you… even if you change nothing else in your game.

Just pretend as if there is a giant string tied to your belt that is gently pulling you along

as you are walking.

It really is that easy. The tricky part is simply REMEMBERING to do it until you

internalize it and it becomes second nature.

So you can tie a string around your finger, or write a note to yourself backwards on your

forehead so you can read it when you look in the mirror.....lol

It’s THAT important.

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5. Lift Your Chest

I also talked about ANOTHER “goldmine” move that is easy to learn

and will improve your body language INSTANTLY.

A while ago I was fortunate to have a gentleman write in to me that happened to coach

professional musicians and singers.

He shared with me a secret used by professional singers to powerfully amplify their

voices to completely fill up a room.

As it turns out, you can use this secret to massively and INSTANTLY improve your

body language.

I really wish I would have thought of this one…

That secret is to “lift” your chest.

When you lift your chest towards the sky, it practically forces you to align your body

into a powerfully masculine position.

You can do this whether you’re sitting, standing, or walking.

In fact, this really is an instant cure that you can use anytime you aren’t sure of how to

position yourself.

Since this gentleman first shared this technique with me, I’ve personally incorporated

it into everything I do, and it’s a proven winner.

I can tell you from experience that when you are learning how to be successful with

women, there are very few “quick fixes”. In 99% of cases, simply learning a great “pick up

line” or technique will get you nowhere.

Well, this is one of those VERY RARE exceptions. Use it!

6. Make Her Earn It

When most guys are around women, they make the big mistake of physically “leaning

in”. This subtly communicates to a woman that you want her… and that SHE---not YOU---is

in charge.

Not good.

It’s FAR more effective to lean back a bit and make her come to you. This accomplishes

three VERY important things:

1. It makes her feel comfortable with talking to you because you are not crowding

into her personal space.

2. It completely separates you from every other guy she’s met, and let’s her know

RIGHT AWAY that there is something different about you.

3. It creates a HUGE challenge by subtly forcing HER to come to YOU… and sets

up the frame that YOU are the selector and SHE is the pursuer right from the start.

The same holds true in how you orient the way you are facing when talking to a woman.

If you immediately turn to face her while she is facing even slightly away, then YOU are

framed as the pursuer.

On the other hand, if you approach her WITHOUT facing her directly, and let her be

the one to position her body towards you, it says all the right things, and starts the

interaction off right.

These two things are the secrets every “natural” uses to have woman chasing him from

the start. Start paying very close attention to this stuff when you’re interacting with women.

It will be second nature for you before you know it.

7. Show Her That You Are Sexually Aware

If you can master the subtle ways to show a woman that you are sexually aware and

experienced WITHOUT saying anything, women will become turned on simply by being

around you.

One of the biggest indicators women use to size up a man’s sexual experience is the

way he touches HIMSELF.

Here are a few things you can do to let a woman know that you know exactly what

you’re doing:

1. Every once in awhile, briefly caress your own chest or neck as you are talking to

her

2. If you find yourself talking to a woman and you are both sitting down, rest one

hand on your inner thigh near (but not touching) your crotch

3. Look intensely in her eyes, and then look away

4. Eliminate all “fidgety” movements and nervous “ticks”

Learning sexual body language might be the simplest thing you can do to improve your

ability to make women feel attraction for you.

It’s also one of the most important.

This is one of few “easy fixes” that will get you huge results.

Like I mentioned before, the only hard part here is REMEMBERING what to do and

making a conscious effort to do it.

Make a commitment to yourself right now that you will take the time and effort it takes

to master this skill. Read this over and over again until every word is burned

into your brain. There is a TON of terrific and HIGHLY IMPORTANT subtle points in there,

and when you master all of them, you’ll be amazed at just how powerfully women respond to

you.
      
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