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A good break up may be defined as a break up in which both sides leave a relationship on good terms with each other.
Just because it may be a good break up, doesn’t necessarily mean that both sides will be happy to actually do the “breaking up” part. Break ups are hard, usually for at least one or both parts involved in them, no matter if it is a good break up, or if it is a very bad break up. The realization that the love you might have shared with someone else, and the relationship that you had with them that could have lasted a longer amount of time if things were different, that realization makes things difficult for most people who experience them. A good break up allows for both parties to be at peace with their decision to split, and usually allows for a friendship to be present at some point in the near future after the split.
I’ll start by dedicating this on to all who have loved and lived and lied and tried and cried and got tired…
Why am I starting off with break up quotes anyway?
First of all, they help us to realize that we are not alone out there. People have suffered from broken hearts back through thousands of years.
Thinking that you are alone with your break up is not as absurd as many of you perhaps might think. One of the main characteristics of break ups is that we are overcome with overwhelming loneliness. Knowing that other people have had this problem too, and survived, gives you comfort and strength to hang in there.
On the other side, it’s always helpful to see another angle. Artists especially seem to have a different view of the world and life – their gift is to enliven the unaware. They help us to understand what we may already know in our minds, but the feelings in our heart resist believing.
So, I’ve collected the 10 most inspiring break up quotes for you, and I’ve explained them as simply as possible. They not only sound good, but actually make you feel better and more positive about the future if you are going through a break up right now.
Here they are:
The 10 most positive and inspiring break up quotes:
1. “‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
—Alfred Lord Tennyson
Everyone who has suffered from a broken heart at any time has heard this quote. Unfortunately it does not give comfort at the beginning, only years later will you realize its profoundness and value.
When you understand its true meaning, then you’ll know that you’ve overcome your break up or divorce.
It is one of my favorite break up quotes.
2. “If you really love something set it free. If it comes back it’s yours, if not it wasn’t meant to be.”
I heard this the first time in the movie Indecent Proposal. It illustrates the necessity of detachment, of “letting go” after a break up.
If you can let go, you will receive.
3. “You have to forgive to forget, and forget, to feel again.”
There is no moving on without forgiveness, and more importantly: there is no new beginning while carrying “old emotional baggage”.
4. “Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart do not know how to laugh either.”
Experiencing the negative emotions is part of life. Only if we are able to go through them with our full consciousness can we also appreciate and benefit from the positive ones.
5. “Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.”
Sometimes relationships can’t be fixed. That is when it’s better to move on. Sad, but very often true.
6. “Some people think that it’s holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it’s letting go.”
Only when you are able to completely detach yourself, can you be free. After a break up, and elsewhere in life. Be a leaf floating in a river, not knowing where it might take you. This is true freedom.
7. “The loss of love is not nearly as painful as our resistance to accepting it is.”
Acceptance is one important step in healing from a break up. This is part of the painful first phase.
8. “I’m going to smile and make you think I’m happy, I’m going to laugh, so you don’t see me cry, I’m going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me – I’m going to smile.”
This is actually some great break up advice in two ways: first you are not being needy in front of your Ex, you demonstrate strength and your Ex may wonder if s/he has made the right decision.
Also, constant smiling despite the fact that you feel terrible is a great way “to trick” your mind. By smiling, the body sends signals to the mind that you are happy, even if you are not. Eventually the mind WILL accept the state of the body.
This is simple neuro-linguistic programming.
9. “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”
—M. Kathleen Casey
This is a great one.
It means that you have the choice to accept the pain and not allow it to turn into suffering.
One of the main reasons that mental pain turns into suffering is continual mental reasoning. We can break that vicious cycle by learning to control our thoughts.
10. “I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was.”
It is a great accomplishment to realize that we loved a concept, a picture we had in our minds, rather than the person himself. When we break up, it’s this concept we miss, and what causes the pain is the failure of the same.
The minute we realize this, we can kick our Exes from the pedestal.
These were some of the best inspirational break up quotes I could find; I hope you’ve enjoyed them.
They teach us about detachment, the necessity to forgive and let go, to live life to the fullest with all its dark sides, acceptance, neuro-linguistic programming, mental control and the existence of false pictures.
All virtues for overcoming a break up
The worst feeling and the unbearable pain in the world is of losing someone really special. If you are feeling lonely after a break up share your feelings with your friends here through your comments. Maybe you’ll feel good or lighter by doing this!
These are some of mine and that of people world over ...it may speak your mind too.
No matter how hard I try, no matter how many relationships I get into…. it will never replace the one I just lost.
There is a severe pain I felt in my heart which you will never see b’coz it appears when you are not here.
A broken relationship would make you feel lonelier than when you were single.
Dear Bad Luck ….. Let’s break up.
A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it.
People say follow your heart…but which way do you go when your heart breaks into two?
It’s hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does.
Relationships are very simple. There are only two things that can happen. You either get married or your break up.
The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live.
Wants to remind you that even though you cannot go back and make a brand new start, you can always start now and make a brand new ending.
Do you know why a previous relationship is called EX? It’s not the term for the past. EX is short for EXpired.
There comes a time when walking away is the best for everyone.
Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together.
It’s not just the goodbyes that hurts, it’s the flashbacks that follow..
It’s better to dream of something you may never have than to lose something you always dreamed of having.
Trusting you again is my decision, proving me wrong is your choice.
I’ll say goodbye this one last time. But know that I’m not really saying goodbye because in my heart I will still always love you. So goodbye...
Dear Insomnia. I think we really need to break-up…I don’t love you anymore…
I wish you weren’t in my dreams.
If you can’t save the relationship, at least save your pride.
Just give me time and I will get over you.
Was the heart was made to be broken?
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
There is always that person in life that you give several chances, it’s because you love them more than you hate them.
It’s not the breakup that hurts the most. It’s the post trauma that follows it. It is waking up and checking your cell for the sms that is not there
It’s so hard to look at you and think we were so close. We were best friends. And now. I’m nothing to you.
Out of all the people in the world i thought you were the the one to be there for me 4 ever and always. turns out i was just your last option wasn’t i
Sometimes when you love someone who isn’t right for you, no matter how much you love them and want them back you have to let them go….right?
They say you have to go on and forget the past, but for me it’s not like that cause every time i try to forget the memory hunts me again..
I will never learn to stop loving you I’m just learning how to live without you and move on without you there by my side.
I’m going to take the past and burn it up. Lift my head
and carry on. Cause baby I’m stronger than you’ll ever know..
“Are you mad at me?” No, I`m perfectly happy you broke my heart..
I don’t miss you, I miss who I thought you were.
If your love does not work with that person, it just means that someone else loves you more….right?
If you can’t save the relationship, at least save your pride..
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
Just give me time and I’ll get over you.
You broke a promise and made me realize. It was all just a lie.
No more wasting time thinking about wasted time.
If someone really loves you, they wouldn’t let you slip away no matter how big the situation is.
I’ll hide my broken heart beneath a laughing face and though you’ll think I never cared, no one can take your place.
If you find a girl/guy who’s willing to go through hell just to keep your relationship going, you really shouldn’t take his/her love for granted.
Do you remember when you broke my heart well i found the girl/guy who knows how to fix it.
There are certain people who are not meant to fit in your life, no matter how much you want them to be.
I’m too bright to shine in your dull World..
What do you do when Something that was your Everything becomes a Nothing?.
No more wasting time thinking about wasted time.
The most painful memory I have is of when I walked away and you let me leave.
And then in my usual manner.... i will leave you with a gift pix at the end...one you should ponder upon thoroughly....lol
And i'll talk to you again soon...
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