Thursday, July 4, 2013


      Am back Friends, sorry for leaving. On return i had to deal with tons of mails and requests.. And on this note...
If I see one more Facebook friend request by some shirtless dude posing in a bathroom mirror holding a camera phone I think I will organize an etiquette posse.  And ladies, please for the love of Snookie, stop with the full booty 
poses, puckered lips and stilettos.  Sure, Facebook is fun and should be a reflection of your personality, so if you are in no need of a job, shower, shelter or friends, then I guess that picture of you picking your nose won’t be such a big deal.  For the rest of us, looking good in those tiny little squares could be the difference between getting a job or landing a date.

If we’re to believe the marketing geniuses at, one in five couples now meets online. I’ve been looking, and dang, have we seen some messed up profile pictures. Listen, it’s sad but true, but your online dating profile pic can make the difference between somebody asking you out or moving right along. Women are superficial, they know these things and are guilty of passing on perfectly nice guys because they looked stanky in their pics. As such, we’ve come up with a simple list of dos and don’ts for both men and women to follow when selecting their all-important profile images. These suggestions have been culled with the help of our friends who have looked at countless online profiles, too, so they know what they’re talking about.


DON’T include photos of yourself with more attractive friends. Actually, try not to include pictures of yourself with friends, period. It just confuses women. You don’t want them inquiring after your friend Chris do you?

DON’T include photos of yourself with girls. Yeah, yeah, women get it: you want to prove to them that you’ve, in fact, touched a real live girl before. But that’s the thing — it’s so obvious that’s what you’re doing, that women see you as really desperate. 

DO include pictures of yourself with your pets — if they happen to be cuddly puppies or kittens. But probably leave the animal pics out if you happen to be a herpetologist or rat hoarder or something.

DON’T use a professional headshot. The only people who really want to date struggling actors are … nobody.

DON’T lead with your Halloween or team/school Mascot costume. They don’t know you. They don’t know if you as a giant banana is your Halloween look or just your average Tuesday.

DO include pics of yourself doing cool stuff. But not, like, 10 pictures of you playing in a band. Also, most girls over the age of 23 aren’t trying to get with a dude in a band. 

DO remember that girls pay a lot of attention to stuff like shoes — things that you probably don’t really think about. Wear good shoes in your picture.

DO include at least one mostly full body pic, otherwise they’re going to assume you’re hiding a tumor, or a tail or a bizarrely chubby leg….lol


DON’T include a “quirky” photo of yourself with a fake mustache, or a mustache tattoo, or a mustache hat, or just no mustaches. Apparently this is a thing that lots of girls do — it must be the International Symbol for Manic Pixie Dream Girl or something. Just … don’t.

DON’T include photos you’ve taken of yourself in the bathroom mirror. It just seems sort of sad and pathetic. Don’t you do anything fun? Don’t you have exciting little candid moments in life? Come on! If not, grab a friend or roommate and fake it.

DON’T post a zillion pictures of yourself in a bikini — unless you’re looking to attract the type of juicehead dudes who are looking for girls who spend the majority of their days in bikinis. You reap what you sow — especially when it comes to online profile photos.

DO show a pic of what you look on the day-to-day. He’s going to find out anyway, and most guys would rather deal with reality than with some totally fake version of you.

DON’T post a prom pic, or some weird formal event picture. Are you a princess? No, you’re not, and he’s not going to expect to see you dolled up like one every day. Unless you are a princess, in which case, ignore this point and commence with the tiara.

DO include photos of yourself having fun, but like, not too much fun. Not falling on the floor, ass out fun. Keep it together, girl.

…………And just to add to this………

Take in (or take out) the light.
Lighting can be your best friend or your worst enemy.  Broad, flat lighting is what’s common for model photos, but for the rest of us mere mortals, it’s not for everybody, especially if you have an extra 20 to lose.
 Learn to channel the power of light and you’re more than halfway to picture-perfect.  if you have a wide face, introduce some shadows–it has a slimming effect.  If you have a narrow face broad light works well most of the time. (Ma’am take note).

Secondly, shots from under the chin are just bad, bad, and bad.  You lose the shape of your jawbone, see flaring nostrils and possible boogers.  Here’s an insider secret: point the tip of your nose to the center of the camera and it will always give you the best nose and jaw shots ( Snatasha take note).

Thirdly, Take a cue from models on this one–sit up straight and drop your shoulders.  “It elongates the neck and gives a regal look.

And i'll talk to you again soon...

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