ONE NIGHT STANDS

As the title suggests, I haven’t indulged in it (straight face) but I do know people, from both genders, who have, and it seems that a One-Night-Stand isn't as immoral or hurtful as most people perceive it. Here, from my limited understanding of this subject, I am trying to present the advantages that a One-Night-Stand is most likely to offer. AND this is from a non-religious standpoint so take note before you spit fire. Your comments, no matter how critical, are most welcome.

One-Night-Stands When You Cannot Handle Emotional Bonding at the Moment

For all those who have been through break-ups, heartbreaks and the heartache that follows would understand that there are phases in our lives when we don’t want to get emotionally involved. 

During such circumstances, the need of being physically connected to another human being, the craving to feel that raw bedroom passion still surfaces. In such a scenario, what possibilities do you have? Do you tell your hormones and your brain to mind themselves and just shut-up? Do you leave yourself frustrated which is bound to happen since you are denying yourself something that your mind and body yearn for? The solution to this seems like a One-Night-Stand. Since the groundwork and principles for it are already set, it ensures that you wouldn’t need to carry an emotional baggage. Since it is mutual, it is “expected” that your partner too is seeking something similar. So, if two, like-minded (Adult) souls gets connected, though for just a night, doesn’t seem like they are committing a crime.

One-Night-Stands When You are Invited to One

At least among the metros of our nation, women are equally sexually-aggressive. So, there is every chance that you might be asked to a One-Night-Stand. Here, some naysayers might say that the invitation itself could be morally flawed. The lady in question might be married, engaged or committed to somebody else. However, I would like to pose a question here? Unless the person with whom she is involved with is somebody known or close to you, do you really want to decode what has forced the lady to seek a One-Night-Stand outside her relationship? Since she is the one who has set things in motion and her man isn't someone with whom you share friendly or family relations, does the moral compass really point towards you? In my skewed opinion, it doesn’t. You have something to gain from this proposed, night of pleasure and you didn’t precipitate the situation, so the guilt should dilute itself away.

One-Night-Stands When Your Self-Esteem, Confidence Needs a Boost

Men are equally prone to having phases of low self-esteem and unexplained, depressive tendencies as women. The fact that men also suffer from hormonal mood swings has been established by medical researchers. Something similar could be a situation where you are struggling to uphold your self-confidence(ego)—the inherent feeling of cheerfulness has just deserted you. The absence of a girlfriend has further alienated you from the comforting support of a companion and the emotional highs of being sexually active.

Indulging in a One-Night-Stand seems to offer an instant solution to this. Some of the more suave or prudish men might take objection to it but most men like me would agree that a good performance in the bedroom and seeing that unmistakable look of absolute pleasure on a lady’s face tends to pump the male ego without any parallels. 

Like I said before, a One-Night-Stand is mutual and if you are able to solve your confidence issues from it and offer a night of pleasure to another human being, where is the shame in it? It has been medically established that sex is the strongest of natural antidotes for depression, anxiety, bodily pains and various illnesses. Here, having a One-Night-Stand almost equals self-therapy! 

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LEONHART